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Vanessa Carlton => General Vanessa Carlton Discussion => Topic started by: AfterAfterglow on October 01, 2007, 03:20:15 am
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In one clear sentence: Please tell me what was the main reason for their break up? Why? Wouldn't you guys say its friggin awkward to write Fools like me when your ex or something is sitting in the studio while you are singing your heart out in full blast?
Why? :D Why? and WHY?
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I think he cheated on her.
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...a lot
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well yeah....but do you think she will tell us...? Apparently she dodged that question when she was asked about it by a reported.....
So....please kick him if you see him - that FOOL
Damn, she is soo sexy and have brains and so smart....why do these people always get cheated on? Why?
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Some girl that lives near me bragged about having slept with Stephan Jenkins - and this was right when he and Vanessa started dating. She was a "groupie" so to speak and it's sort of gross if it's true bc she was only like 17 or 18 at the time.
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You know what I wanna know? When I brought up the whole cheating thing about two years ago, people bombarded me with like pitchforks and told me not to destry her personal life. Just reminiscing. lol it's okay though. Vanessa will find someone better and who treats her properly
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^ I would have agreed with you, but at the time I think people just wanted to be polite and not get into it since Vanessa might visit this website and of course nobody wanted to upset her. Also, nobody wanted to start rumors.
But he reminds me of the kind of guy who is sort of a womanizer =\
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I don't think we really need to go here, but I suppose as long as this stays clean I'll keep it here for now. :)
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gossip sucks...
I'm sure she will find some great guy. :)
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Oh...I didnt know that :( well yesh...like people said, she can and will find someone better =]
(she deserves better =D)
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Wait....they broke up? holy shit, where the hell have i been...
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Wait....they broke up? holy shit, where the hell have i been...
Some place different? :lol: :wink:
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Clearly....haha
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Wait....they broke up? holy shit, where the hell have i been...
Dude, seriously! You should pay more attention, being in TX doesn't excuse everything!! ;)
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I have to say I wondered the same.
When did they break up exactly? I knew they had broken up just never really felt like getting to the bottom of it. not my business
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Does anyone think that she slept around, too?
Eeehh I feel so bad asking, I know it's her private life and all, but I can't help but just wonder.
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^^ I dunno. For some reason, I really feel it was him.
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I thought it was him too. I am sure she wrote Fools Like Me after the fact that they broke up.
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Wait....they broke up? holy shit, where the hell have i been...
Dude, seriously! You should pay more attention, being in TX doesn't excuse everything!! ;)
haha...sure sure.
when did it happen?
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lol that would've been really weird recording Fools Like Me with him sitting right there... talk about AWKWARD!
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when did it happen?
Sometime over the summer.
No one knows the exact time but it doesn't matter: it's Vanessa's private life.
We should stop being so nosey! ;)
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I just found out the other day that he's 43. Whoa.
He actually looks a lot younger.
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when did it happen?
Sometime over the summer.
No one knows the exact time but it doesn't matter: it's Vanessa's private life.
We should stop being so nosey! ;)
haha, word...thats the only question i had. wanted to see how far behind i was :p
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I just found out the other day that he's 43. Whoa.
He actually looks a lot younger.
8O yes, yes he does
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I think he looks like a 35yo junkie who appears aged from all the drugs he's done. lol
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I'm sure she will find some great guy. :)
I'm sure she will find ME 8)
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is this really our buisness.... I mean she has given us so many liberties to what is happening in her life
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I'm sure she will find some great guy. :)
I'm sure she will find ME 8)
I'm sure she will. :lol: Are you a great guy? HEY VANESSA, there is this guy from Argentina for you! Hey, do you have pics?
We need to set up the nessaholic dating service, I swear. LMFAO
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I just found out the other day that he's 43.
Holy moley! 8O
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thats pretttttyyyy old... 8O
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I think he looks like a 35yo junkie who appears aged from all the drugs he's done. lol
lmao thats so true! He looks so old and saggy. Good riddance!
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Personally guys, I don't think either of them were to blame and to comments about Stephen sleeping around, I can't believe that either. I've never really listened to Third Eye Blind so I have no idea about his personality etc, but I found his persona to be very resassuring in Pleased to Meet You.
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Stephan slept around constantly, I personally know people who had sex with him within the last year. I've been to 10 3eb shows and I've seen him with the girls backstage.
Sucks but it's true and not surprising at all. He is very charming and also very selfish.
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Stephan slept around constantly, I personally know people who had sex with him within the last year. I've been to 10 3eb shows and I've seen him with the girls backstage.
Sucks but it's true and not surprising at all. He is very charming and also very selfish.
:cry:
Well in that case, he can die an untimely death
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Hopefully no STDs were spread 8O
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Uhm yeah, your typical male musician if any of you dont realize this shit by now? Same things goes for proffessional athletes. One who is respectful of their significant other is a needle in a haystack.
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Uhm yeah, your typical male musician if any of you dont realize this shit by now? Same things goes for proffessional athletes. One who is respectful of their significant other is a needle in a haystack.
They just wanna find that needle!!!
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Correct me if I'm wrong but didn't she sound like she was defending him on the Giant magazine article. It sounded like she was trying to say there was no cheating going on. Honestly I wouldn't doubt if he did cheat, like most of you have mentioned he is a rock star and they get groupies tempting them all the time.
I have no doubt Vanessa will find someone else, she's beautiful inside and out! :)
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Sounds like it was a Stephan problem. Didn't she say something about not dating rockstars before performing Fools Like Me once?
And the guy always seemed like the biggest ass. She can do much better.
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who cares?!!!!! I believe this is none of our business anyway... :roll:
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you guys are hilarious, cant believe he is 43 crazy
i still remember the one album with jumper and losing a whole year. gah i was 9 and rocking out hardcore
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I hope he gets syphilis from all his sleeping around.
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I hope he gets syphilis from all his sleeping around.
dunno what that is, but I agree. :lol:
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i can't even imagine dating a rockstar for that long... can you imagine the wasted energy on him? incredible.
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lmao at the syphillis comment.
How did she not know about him getting it on with groupies?
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stephan gave me syphillis once... he is such a jerk!
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stephan gave me syphillis once... he is such a jerk!
hahhahaha
hope you got it cured/treated.
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Wait....they broke up? holy shit, where the hell have i been...
i kno...wen my friend told me i was like WTF?!! i thought they were so good together and they were a good couple...i kno im being nosy but i had 2 kno wat went wrong cuz after all those years it had to b something big...wat a asshole he was to cheat on her, she is very creative, charismatic, and overall cool person...i pray she will find somebody rite for her...hey btw, i heard a rumor that vanessa and irv were 2gether...i kno this cant b tru, could it?
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Does anyone think that she slept around, too?
Eeehh I feel so bad asking, I know it's her private life and all, but I can't help but just wonder.
maybe u never kno...but i dont mean to b sexist but woman r usually not like that (im a dude) but i doubt she did...i think shes too good 4 that...and plus i think that would go around the press quickly...
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I just found out the other day that he's 43. Whoa.
He actually looks a lot younger.
i kno wen i found that out i was like: wow. SOMEBODY like older men...
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I'm sure she will find some great guy. :)
I'm sure she will find ME 8)
shes mine biotch..jk jk but it would b cool to meet her ya kno? shes seems like somebody u could talk to seriously
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I'm sure she will find some great guy. :)
I'm sure she will find ME 8)
shes mine biotch..jk jk but it would b cool to meet her ya kno? shes seems like somebody u could talk to seriously
What do you mean you are just kidding? sheesh *hands out swords*
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too late brohams
nessa and i already have a date planned for this week---SUCK ON THAT
:)
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He just looks like a d-bag!!!
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when did it happen?
Sometime over the summer.
No one knows the exact time but it doesn't matter: it's Vanessa's private life.
We should stop being so nosey! ;)
haha, word...thats the only question i had. wanted to see how far behind i was :p
hey Brian, i've missed you!
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I think it is kinda strange the dedication she put in her CD....
"Special thanks to Stephans Jenkins for your unconditional support of me and your great talent. Heroes and Thieves would not have been made without your love and tenacity."
Woa! I could write thoughts here but I don't want to spread any more rumors than the ones that are already out there. But it is strange and interesting none the less
As for Fools Like Me (which just so happens to be my fav. song on the CD!!!) she could have recorded that song with someone other than Stephans. That's my thought...
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Yeah...don't date a rockstar. I learned that the hard way. And also have been on the other side. Unless you don't mind being a Shannon Tweed to your Gene Simmons.
Handsome, popular musician men get so much attention from girls that they think they don't need to give anything back. And they don't..when they know that you'll do all the "footwork" so to speak. They don't know how to pick up the damn phone and actually call YOU first.
So yeah....... don't date musician men!! :twisted:
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too late brohams
nessa and i already have a date planned for this week---SUCK ON THAT
:)
bitch plz...u wish...shes hot but she doesnt have much curves and no im not a womanizer...just my personal preference...but i would be lying if i said she aint sexy cuz we all kno she is, but in a different way
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I'm sure she will find some great guy. :)
I'm sure she will find ME 8)
shes mine biotch..jk jk but it would b cool to meet her ya kno? shes seems like somebody u could talk to seriously
What do you mean you are just kidding? sheesh *hands out swords*
shes sexy n all but she aint my type but shes still sexy 8)
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Hmmm the topic of Vanessa and Stephan...
Well I can't comment. I don't know them personally, and I'm not even in the same country (or continent) lol but that must suck for Vanessa.
And I agree with the first poster- it is weird! How could you tell something so personal right in front of the person who hurt you? Its just weird.....
They must be more friends than.. you know. Who knows.
I reckon judging by Vanessa's songs- she seems pretty naive, and it was almost inevitable. People like her always get stomped on. But yes, Vanessa does deserve better!!
She will, eventually :)
Even if stephan is a jerk... he's a pretty good musician you have to admit! Both albums he helped with were awesome. (But most of the credit goes to Nessa!)
Katherine Ann Marie xox
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I can pretty much tell you this ( as if you didn't know :lol: ) He is way into groupies.Especially " College Aged" girls like 18-21. Which is kinda gross if you think about it he is 40 something! Date some people your own age :lol:
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I can pretty much tell you this ( as if you didn't know :lol: ) He is way into groupies.Especially " College Aged" girls like 18-21. Which is kinda gross if you think about it he is 40 something! Date some people your own age :lol:
how do you know that? :?
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he indicates the ones he wants at after-parties and has the tour manager casually invite them to another room.
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he indicates the ones he wants at after-parties and has the tour manager casually invite them to another room.
your siggie is incredible! nice work.
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:wink: I know because all the 3eb fans talk about it.
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he indicates the ones he wants at after-parties and has the tour manager casually invite them to another room.
wow that is soo wrong...
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8O He is turning into Tommy Lee and all those other 80's bands that you used to invite groupies backstage.Maybe if he would stop making out with groupies he could actually finish the album he's been working on forever. Anyways......Back to Vanessa!
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I hope he gets syphilis from all his sleeping around.
If it's true [which it most likely is b/c 'skeezbag' is an understatement for celebs] then that means he's a slut/whore/prostitute/ho-bag. He looks old and gross, anyway. And did I mention that he don't look all that hot? But he did do a good job helping V out on HARMONIUM, though...
A lot of celebs have talent and public/professional success, but their private/personal lives ain't worth sh!t [like Elvis Presely and Britney Spears]. It's like the saying goes... it may take talent, ability [and possibly hard work] to get you to the top, but it'll take character [how you are behind closed doors as opposed to how you are when everyone's looking] to keep you up there.
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Hmmm the topic of Vanessa and Stephan...
Well I can't comment. I don't know them personally, and I'm not even in the same country (or continent) lol but that must suck for Vanessa.
And I agree with the first poster- it is weird! How could you tell something so personal right in front of the person who hurt you? Its just weird.....
They must be more friends than.. you know. Who knows.
I reckon judging by Vanessa's songs- she seems pretty naive, and it was almost inevitable. People like her always get stomped on. But yes, Vanessa does deserve better!!
She will, eventually :)
Even if stephan is a jerk... he's a pretty good musician you have to admit! Both albums he helped with were awesome. (But most of the credit goes to Nessa!)
Katherine Ann Marie xox
yea...ur rite
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Who is Victor?
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Who is Victor?
Vanessa's dog... :)
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lol that would've been really weird recording Fools Like Me with him sitting right there... talk about AWKWARD!
That's exactly how it was for Fleetwood Mac. They were all writing together and making some of their most poplular tunes while all that was going on in the band. Stevie Nicks knows all about it and maybe that has something to do with their relationship...
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Yeah well I think that Stephen is a jerk....Vanessa was obviously a fool because she sings "Fools like ME, how we love blindly".. Everyone makes mistakes but "gotta learn sometime".... :oops: :oops:
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he indicates the ones he wants at after-parties and has the tour manager casually invite them to another room.
that is so fucked up
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i think this thread is rediculous. nobody here can say what went on during, before or after there relationship. he is a MAN in a band with girls all over the place, this is hardly anything out of the ordinary.
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i think this thread is rediculous. nobody here can say what went on during, before or after there relationship. he is a MAN in a band with girls all over the place, this is hardly anything out of the ordinary.
oh right. he's a man...all is forgiven :roll:
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He's not a real man if he can't stay committed to one person. Means he's weak and he gives into temptation.
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Ok now how long ago was this??? Lets please drop it.