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=> FAQ / Board Issues => Topic started by: kev222 on January 21, 2004, 04:49:48 am
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A lot of people have been PMing me asking something along the lines of
Hey Kev,
You were by far the best looking, funniest, most intelligent and most talented moderator, so why are you no longer a mod?
-An adoring fan
p.s. Marry me!?!
;-) So rather than reply to everyone individually, I thought I'd take some time to explain here. Hopefully this will satisfy your raging curiosity.
A few months ago it was decided that there were too many inactive Mods. Wonkies and me opted to step down as moderators because at that time we weren't around much. Joe is still not around a whole lot and although I am around a lot more these days, I still wanted to step down. So we both handed in our moderator accounts. The reasons I wanted to step down will take some explaining.
Nh.com hopes to be (and is) more than just a forum and because of this there are good reasons why I couldn't moderate the forum the way I personally would have liked to. That was perfectly fine, I can handle not getting my own way (especially when there are good reasons not to). But as a mod you have a responsibility to keep an eye on things, which means you can't put people on ignore and you have to read a lot of stuff you don't really want to read when you come to the board. Because of this, I found myself enjoying it here less and less and there not being a lot I could do about it. So I decided that I should quit for the sake of my own enjoyment of the forum. The grass is always greener on the other side and I know you'll all stop liking me because I'm no longer a hip & cool mod, so I'll probably live to regret it, but for now we'll see :-)
So that's the reason. I know you were probably hoping it would be a spectacular power struggle for control of nh.com resulting in me being fired. But it wasn't :-P
-Kev
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So that's the reason. I know you were probably hoping it would be a spectacular power struggle for control of nh.com resulting in me being fired. But it wasn't :-P
Well.. there WAS the big battle at Katia's secret underground layer. But I think that was unrelated to you being fired.
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Couldn't stand having to read my posts, eh? Wuss.
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Couldn't stand having to read my posts, eh? Wuss.
Don't worry about him Scum, he's just bitter Katia wouldn't give him half of the lair.
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Couldn't stand having to read my posts, eh? Wuss.
Don't try to put up that hostile front with me Todd. Your PM was the one I quoted above. You aren't fooling anyone.
-Kev
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Couldn't stand having to read my posts, eh? Wuss.
Don't try to put up that hostile front with me Todd. Your PM was the one I quoted above. You aren't fooling anyone.
-Kev
Tod and Kevin sitting in a tree.....
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Couldn't stand having to read my posts, eh? Wuss.
Don't try to put up that hostile front with me Todd. Your PM was the one I quoted above. You aren't fooling anyone.
-Kev
Tod and Kevin sitting in a tree.....
It's unrequited I assure you. In fact he knows full well that he can't attempt to communicate with me or come within 500 feet.
-Kev
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HUGS!!!!!!!!!!! :D
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A lot of people have been PMing me asking something along the lines of
Hey Kev,
You were by far the best looking, funniest, most intelligent and most talented moderator, so why are you no longer a mod?
-An adoring fan
p.s. Marry me!?!
;-) So rather than reply to everyone individually, I thought I'd take some time to explain here. Hopefully this will satisfy your raging curiosity.
A few months ago it was decided that there were too many inactive Mods. Wonkies and me opted to step down as moderators because at that time we weren't around much. Joe is still not around a whole lot and although I am around a lot more these days, I still wanted to step down. So we both handed in our moderator accounts. The reasons I wanted to step down will take some explaining.
Nh.com hopes to be (and is) more than just a forum and because of this there are good reasons why I couldn't moderate the forum the way I personally would have liked to. That was perfectly fine, I can handle not getting my own way (especially when there are good reasons not to). But as a mod you have a responsibility to keep an eye on things, which means you can't put people on ignore and you have to read a lot of stuff you don't really want to read when you come to the board. Because of this, I found myself enjoying it here less and less and there not being a lot I could do about it. So I decided that I should quit for the sake of my own enjoyment of the forum. The grass is always greener on the other side and I know you'll all stop liking me because I'm no longer a hip & cool mod, so I'll probably live to regret it, but for now we'll see :-)
So that's the reason. I know you were probably hoping it would be a spectacular power struggle for control of nh.com resulting in me being fired. But it wasn't :-P
-Kev
hey!!
did you have to post MY PM??
That last part was for your eyes only you know!!
(but still,....marry me..? ;) :lol: )
I'm glad you didn't leave the board, but only became...uhm...a "normal" member
:D
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hey!!
did you have to post MY PM??
That last part was for your eyes only you know!!
(but still,....marry me..? ;) :lol: )
Yes! And I'm taking this seriously you know, I may never get asked again. I'll be in Holland in a week, you'd better start making plans ;-)
I'm glad you didn't leave the board, but only became...uhm...a "normal" member
:D
Thanks Si :) I never even entertained the idea of leaving.
-Kev
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It's unrequited I assure you. In fact he knows full well that he can't attempt to communicate with me or come within 500 feet.
-Kev
e-restraining order? :dr evil:
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Seems like a pretty good reason to me...*shrug*
But then again, you're not a desperate mod wannabe...
hey!!
did you have to post MY PM??
That last part was for your eyes only you know!!
(but still,....marry me..? ;) :lol: )
Yes! And I'm taking this seriously you know, I may never get asked again. I'll be in Holland in a week, you'd better start making plans ;-)
Do you believe in poligamy?
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Seems like a pretty good reason to me...*shrug*
But then again, you're not a desperate mod wannabe...
hey!!
did you have to post MY PM??
That last part was for your eyes only you know!!
(but still,....marry me..? ;) :lol: )
Yes! And I'm taking this seriously you know, I may never get asked again. I'll be in Holland in a week, you'd better start making plans ;-)
Do you believe in poligamy?
O:-)
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Couldn't stand having to read my posts, eh? Wuss.
Don't try to put up that hostile front with me Todd. Your PM was the one I quoted above. You aren't fooling anyone.
-Kev
Tod and Kevin sitting in a tree.....
...doing what they shouldn't be :roll:
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Seems like a pretty good reason to me...*shrug*
But then again, you're not a desperate mod wannabe...
hey!!
did you have to post MY PM??
That last part was for your eyes only you know!!
(but still,....marry me..? ;) :lol: )
Yes! And I'm taking this seriously you know, I may never get asked again. I'll be in Holland in a week, you'd better start making plans ;-)
Do you believe in poligamy?
me or Kev?
Coz everybody knows I do
lol
:lol:
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Seems like a pretty good reason to me...*shrug*
But then again, you're not a desperate mod wannabe...
hey!!
did you have to post MY PM??
That last part was for your eyes only you know!!
(but still,....marry me..? ;) :lol: )
Yes! And I'm taking this seriously you know, I may never get asked again. I'll be in Holland in a week, you'd better start making plans ;-)
Do you believe in poligamy?
me or Kev?
Coz everybody knows I do
lol
:lol:
And I would want to marry my NESSAmum because... :?:
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Seems like a pretty good reason to me...*shrug*
But then again, you're not a desperate mod wannabe...
hey!!
did you have to post MY PM??
That last part was for your eyes only you know!!
(but still,....marry me..? ;) :lol: )
Yes! And I'm taking this seriously you know, I may never get asked again. I'll be in Holland in a week, you'd better start making plans ;-)
Do you believe in poligamy?
me or Kev?
Coz everybody knows I do
lol
:lol:
And I would want to marry my NESSAmum because... :?:
lol
Oops, forgot
and... ew.
nevermind
:lol:
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LOL!
I think you know who I meant... :wink:
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LOL!
I think you know who I meant... :wink:
he's mine, you hear me?
MINE
ALL MINE!
GET AWAY FROM HIM!!
Hee
;)
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LOL!
I think you know who I meant... :wink:
he's mine, you hear me?
MINE
ALL MINE!
GET AWAY FROM HIM!!
Hee
;)
See that's exactly what you shouldn't do. Now he's gonna think you'll be a mad, crazy, psycho-possessive wife and he won't marry you!!!
Muahahaha!!
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Couldn't stand having to read my posts, eh? Wuss.
Don't try to put up that hostile front with me Todd. Your PM was the one I quoted above. You aren't fooling anyone.
-Kev
:oops:
Um. No it's not. I never said that... :oops:
OKAY! I ADMIT IT! I'M A SUCKER FOR THE ACCENT!!!!
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Seems like a pretty good reason to me...*shrug*
But then again, you're not a desperate mod wannabe...
hey!!
did you have to post MY PM??
That last part was for your eyes only you know!!
(but still,....marry me..? ;) :lol: )
Yes! And I'm taking this seriously you know, I may never get asked again. I'll be in Holland in a week, you'd better start making plans ;-)
Do you believe in poligamy?
Well why not? I believe in edging my bets, so yes I'll marry you as well :) We'll have both weddings at the same time to cut down on costs. Si can have the ring on Mondays, wednesdays and Fridays and you get it on Tuesdays Thursdays and Saturdays. Nothing's to good for my wives ;-)
-Kev
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Seems like a pretty good reason to me...*shrug*
But then again, you're not a desperate mod wannabe...
hey!!
did you have to post MY PM??
That last part was for your eyes only you know!!
(but still,....marry me..? ;) :lol: )
Yes! And I'm taking this seriously you know, I may never get asked again. I'll be in Holland in a week, you'd better start making plans ;-)
Do you believe in poligamy?
Well why not? I believe in edging my bets, so yes I'll marry you as well :) We'll have both weddings at the same time to cut down on costs. Nothing's to good for my wives ;-)
-Kev
Haha! Yay!! Si can take care of the housework etc. I bagsies the fun!! :wink:
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Haha! Yay!! Si can take care of the housework etc. I bagsies the fun!! :wink:
8O I hope by fun you mean fetching me beers and cleaning the guttering. If so, you're on!
-Kev
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Seems like a pretty good reason to me...*shrug*
But then again, you're not a desperate mod wannabe...
hey!!
did you have to post MY PM??
That last part was for your eyes only you know!!
(but still,....marry me..? ;) :lol: )
Yes! And I'm taking this seriously you know, I may never get asked again. I'll be in Holland in a week, you'd better start making plans ;-)
Do you believe in poligamy?
Well why not? I believe in edging my bets, so yes I'll marry you as well :) We'll have both weddings at the same time to cut down on costs. Nothing's to good for my wives ;-)
-Kev
Haha! Yay!! Si can take care of the housework etc. I bagsies the fun!! :wink:
8O 8O 8O
exCUSE me?!?!
you go to your room younglady!!
you're grounded for life!!
(*should've done that a long time ago, now Kev is all MINE MIIIINE!mwahahahahahaaaaaaaa)
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Note Kev said "nothing is to good for my wives" not "nothing is too good for my wives" Implying that nothing will be that good for you guys....Well girls, have fun! :razz:
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Note Kev said "nothing is to good for my wives" not "nothing is too good for my wives" Implying that nothing will be that good for you guys....Well girls, have fun! :razz:
*leaves Kev and Tia and marries Peter
lol
that makes me sound like a ...
hmmmmmmmmmm
nevermind
*stays alone for the rest of her life
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Note Kev said "nothing is to good for my wives" not "nothing is too good for my wives" Implying that nothing will be that good for you guys....Well girls, have fun! :razz:
*leaves Kev and Tia and marries Peter
lol
that makes me sound like a ...
hmmmmmmmmmm
nevermind
*stays alone for the rest of her life
midpost life crisis decision
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Note Kev said "nothing is to good for my wives" not "nothing is too good for my wives" Implying that nothing will be that good for you guys....Well girls, have fun! :razz:
*leaves Kev and Tia and marries Peter
lol
that makes me sound like a ...
hmmmmmmmmmm
nevermind
*stays alone for the rest of her life
midpost life crisis decision
LOL!
:roflmao:
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Haha! Yay!! Si can take care of the housework etc. I bagsies the fun!! :wink:
8O I hope by fun you mean fetching me beers and cleaning the guttering. If so, you're on!
-Kev
Well I actually meant the non-housework, everyday kinda fun...like the kinda fun friends have...not the other kinda fun...coz...eww...lol
Si - I hope you and Pete are very happy together... And I'm sorry that you're gonna miss out on housework, coz I know you woulda loved that...
*snuggles Pete* So hun...
:wink:
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Haha! Yay!! Si can take care of the housework etc. I bagsies the fun!! :wink:
8O I hope by fun you mean fetching me beers and cleaning the guttering. If so, you're on!
-Kev
Well I actually meant the non-housework, everyday kinda fun...like the kinda fun friends have...not the other kinda fun...coz...eww...lol
Si - I hope you and Pete are very happy together... And I'm sorry that you're gonna miss out on housework, coz I know you woulda loved that...
*snuggles Pete* So hun...
:wink:
what are you guys trying toget me in trouble! :razz:
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Haha! Yay!! Si can take care of the housework etc. I bagsies the fun!! :wink:
8O I hope by fun you mean fetching me beers and cleaning the guttering. If so, you're on!
-Kev
Well I actually meant the non-housework, everyday kinda fun...like the kinda fun friends have...not the other kinda fun...coz...eww...lol
Si - I hope you and Pete are very happy together... And I'm sorry that you're gonna miss out on housework, coz I know you woulda loved that...
*snuggles Pete* So hun...
:wink:
what are you guys trying toget me in trouble! :razz:
Maybe... :-P
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i should have known :o
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Haha.
C'mon, you don't really wanna marry Si...