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Title: Do you ever get the urge to cry for no reason?
Post by: Ms.Redd on June 17, 2003, 04:11:58 pm
Or even petty reasons? But why do others consider them petty if it means a lot to you... Or maybe... Its just too much to deal with and petty reasons build up to a really big petty reason, and therefore, cancels out the pettiness of it all...

Nevermind.
Title: Do you ever get the urge to cry for no reason?
Post by: Ms.Redd on June 17, 2003, 05:00:25 pm
I hate being alone and sad at the same time...

*leaves and tries to forget about it*

edit
screw leaving this is the only freaking thing i have to do
Title: Do you ever get the urge to cry for no reason?
Post by: sweetdang on June 17, 2003, 05:12:22 pm
*Nods*
Title: Do you ever get the urge to cry for no reason?
Post by: LimeTwister on June 17, 2003, 05:13:41 pm
*hugs his hoo*
Title: Do you ever get the urge to cry for no reason?
Post by: Ms.Redd on June 17, 2003, 05:14:35 pm
never thought i'd say this... but i don't think i qualify as a hoo anymore joe
Title: Do you ever get the urge to cry for no reason?
Post by: LimeTwister on June 17, 2003, 05:16:31 pm
well you do...but if you don't want to...

*hugs mal*
Title: Do you ever get the urge to cry for no reason?
Post by: TSE on June 17, 2003, 05:17:52 pm
I like to cry.

It lets out-----stufff

It's fun.  "sept your face gets all red and stuff.

My daddy says I like to cry because it's like hitting your head against the wall.  You like the feeling of it stopping.

BUT I don't knowwwwwwww
Title: Do you ever get the urge to cry for no reason?
Post by: Ms.Redd on June 17, 2003, 05:20:09 pm
Quote from: "TSE"
I like to cry.

It lets out-----stufff



maybe that's true, but then shouldn't you be done then?

for me, its hitting my head against a wall, stopping, and doing it again five times in a row, c.

and joe, yeah i wish i was...
Title: Do you ever get the urge to cry for no reason?
Post by: LimeTwister on June 17, 2003, 05:23:04 pm
Quote from: "Ms.Redd"

and joe, yeah i wish i was...


remember all a hoo does is make a fool out of ones self...

its how it will always work.
Title: Do you ever get the urge to cry for no reason?
Post by: TSE on June 17, 2003, 05:24:47 pm
Quote from: "Ms.Redd"



maybe that's true, but then shouldn't you be done then?



Well it lets out and then creates stuff.  It's like when you walk halfway to the door I think.  You can't get there.  

And then you cry 'cause you don't know why you are crying!  And you say "What's wrong with me?  I am crying even though I don't know why and have no reason to"  AAnd then you cry cause you don't know whats wroong with you.  Then you cry 'cause you don't know how to make it right
Quote from: "Ms.Redd"



for me, its hitting my head against a wall, stopping, and doing it again five times in a row, c.


And then you get that feeling 5 times!
Title: Do you ever get the urge to cry for no reason?
Post by: Laura on June 17, 2003, 05:52:41 pm
Hmm, sometimes I feel down for no reason. I'm always happy at school in front of everyone, but I dunno when I get home sometimes I feel like crying for no reason. Don't worry about it Mal, it happens to everyone.
Title: Do you ever get the urge to cry for no reason?
Post by: freshlettuce on June 17, 2003, 08:12:19 pm
I used to cry for no reason all the time.  It never happened at school because people always saw me as happy and upbeat.  And I always felt I needed to maintain that image...Although I came close to losing my composure at least twice in school when things were feeling quite overwhelming.  

I'd keep those feelings buried within and later, when I was alone in my room or just before bed, it would all come out.  I never understood it.  My mother thought I was being silly because I couldn't pinpoint what made me upset.  All I could say was that I felt very sad all of a sudden.  Or she would say I was too sensitive if the crying was triggered by a comment someone made earlier in the day to me.  It was trickier with my dad.  He could never see me cry because he considers that a weakness and would yell at me if he ever caught me doing that.  So it became this thing I'd have to do privately.

Okay, to make a long story short it turns out I was depressed.  Go figure.  So I was given these little pink pills and now I never cry.  Like I'll go a whole month without crying.  Isn't that fantastic?  Actually, I will cry maybe once or twice a month because of some kind of intense, emotional discussion I might have with someone (which is a legitimate reason to cry) or during Aunt Flo's visit.  It seems pink pills aren't strong enough to subdue the hormone-altering powers of Aunt Flo.

So, to anyone out there crying for no reason:  make sure it's the normal kind of crying-for-no-reason and not the kind that happens several times a week year after year.  Kay?  Good.  

This has been a Fresh Lettuce public service anouncement.  :mrgreen:
Title: Do you ever get the urge to cry for no reason?
Post by: Tia on June 18, 2003, 02:41:14 am
i feel like that too sometimes...i cry myself to sleep a lot...
it sucks...but it helps too...in a weird way...
Title: Do you ever get the urge to cry for no reason?
Post by: PIBby on June 18, 2003, 01:05:54 pm
I don't think I cry that often, nope. I don't cry when I'm physically hurt. If someone hits me I just get mad and hit them back. It's quite relieving, almost like crying . . . in a way. I guess. Yeah. Ummm . . . but, yeahhh. Last time I cried was a couple weeks ago. I couldn't find anything, and that's 'cause I can't ever remember if it's at my Mom or Dad's house . . . and I hate unorganization. I'm not used to it. Very nerve-racking, not for Cece.

I used to cry all the time for no reason, back in the day. That's 'cause I was . . . I don't know. Something to do with, something. Yeah. I used to cry when my Dad drank, heavily. He'd get all mad and stuff and drunk, and he'd yell at me and my brothers for no reason. Not the best few years of my life. That was a long time ago, when I was 3 or 4 or 5 or 6. After that he got sick. He was sick for 5 or 6 years. And I was depressed. I remember, 'cause there's no period of time when I'm not active, and it was around Christmas time, and it was basketball season, and I was about 11, and that's when I got really good at basketball, and I don't know. It was strange, how everything came about. That was when I was really social and became bad. Yep. I hung out with more people than I should have. Then basketball was kinda like . . . okay, I don't care. I don't wanna play basketball today. I don't wanna go to practice again. Depressing stuff, guys. Now my parents are divorced. And I'm convinced my Dad's in the mob. He randomly comes home with huge-ass amounts of money. I guess that should make me happy. I don't know.

That is all.
Title: Do you ever get the urge to cry for no reason?
Post by: CheapandEvilgrl on June 18, 2003, 02:09:21 pm
Indeed.
I cry aaaaaaaaall the time lately.
I have zero control of my emotions.
Its no fun.
Title: umm
Post by: Alecs on June 18, 2003, 02:16:01 pm
Well I'm not depressed half the time about anything but I get tears in my eyes even when I'm lmfao at times. They just come out. Tears of joy I guess... :oops:
Title: Do you ever get the urge to cry for no reason?
Post by: Ms.Redd on June 18, 2003, 02:18:20 pm
thats probably one of the best feelings in the world... ya know it... to laugh so hard you cry and your stomach hurts...

I miss that honestly.
Title: Do you ever get the urge to cry for no reason?
Post by: Laura on June 18, 2003, 04:39:43 pm
Quote from: "Ms.Redd"
thats probably one of the best feelings in the world... ya know it... to laugh so hard you cry and your stomach hurts...

I miss that honestly.


OMG I LOVE when that happens!! I remember back last year or something, in my Drama class, like every day, one of my friends would totally make me crack up in tears, I remember one day it was the beginning of Drama, and the teacher was going over the rules, and we both just started cracking up...my teacher was looking at us like we were crazy, it was funny! LOL

Just thought i'd share  :)  :oops:
Title: Do you ever get the urge to cry for no reason?
Post by: Grakthis on June 19, 2003, 07:17:18 am
Everything we do has a reason.  We don't feel emotions for no reaosn.  WE don't cry for no reason.

there IS a reason, you just don't know what it is.  Start from that premise and figure out WHY you are crying, and then you have a shot at helping yourself.
---Andrew
Title: Do you ever get the urge to cry for no reason?
Post by: Will on June 19, 2003, 09:31:29 am
Crying for no reason is a sign of chemical depression, IIRC.

Pretty much, it means that there may be neurochemical imbalances in your brain and you might want to look into antidepressants.

Maybe you should talk to a doctor or someone who knows what they are talking about. If you go to a shrink, (s)he might be able to help you with some of your problems if it isn't chemical depression.
Title: Do you ever get the urge to cry for no reason?
Post by: Si on June 19, 2003, 09:33:46 am
Quote from: "CheapandEvilgrl"
Indeed.
I cry aaaaaaaaall the time lately.
I have zero control of my emotions.
Its no fun.

lol, Toni, maybe you're pregnant
;)
Just KIDDINNNGG
Title: Do you ever get the urge to cry for no reason?
Post by: rroo on June 19, 2003, 10:14:32 am
Quote from: "Simone Sarah"
Quote from: "CheapandEvilgrl"
Indeed.
I cry aaaaaaaaall the time lately.
I have zero control of my emotions.
Its no fun.

lol, Toni, maybe you're pregnant
;)



hahaha..., or a professional onion cutter!
Title: Do you ever get the urge to cry for no reason?
Post by: CheapandEvilgrl on June 19, 2003, 12:30:40 pm
Quote from: "Simone Sarah"
Quote from: "CheapandEvilgrl"
Indeed.
I cry aaaaaaaaall the time lately.
I have zero control of my emotions.
Its no fun.

lol, Toni, maybe you're pregnant
;)
Just KIDDINNNGG



 8O Si!!!!!!!!!! Who have you been talking to??!!
hehehehehe :wink:
Title: hmm...
Post by: MeechNess on June 20, 2003, 04:43:45 pm
Man, I tripped on the stairs a couple days ago and hit my shin on the corner of the step... DAMN THAT HURT!!! lol.. But, I didn't cry, I just held my breath and bit my lip, lol... Now, it's all green(bruised) and shizzle... Gross... Anyway, I used to cry anytime my stepdad yelled at me because of something I didn't do(chores, clean my room, etc..) or whatever but, now.. I don't because he's not really mad, he just wants me to do something.. lol... and, last time he yelled at me I sort of giggled and he said, "This is not amusing!" Eh.... yes it is...
A few days go, I wanted to cry because well... I was having a conversation with this guy that I have/had a crush on and he knew it and yeah.. he was getting a little.... "heavy".. I guess that's the only way to describe it.... It wasn't cool.. and it's still going on! But, I don't cry about it because I've got people I can talk to about it that can help me figure out what to do about it.. I haven't cried since a few months ago when I was grounded from the computer for a month.... because I didn't have 9th grade finished yet... I was homeschooled.. Going public for the rest of highschool though  :D
Title: Do you ever get the urge to cry for no reason?
Post by: Tiger Baby on June 20, 2003, 07:20:03 pm
Yes, I've had the urge to cry for no reason at all. Yup, yup.
Title: Do you ever get the urge to cry for no reason?
Post by: zurielshimon on June 20, 2003, 08:09:09 pm
Mom was touching me on the back of my neck the other day, and I started giggling because it tickled a little bit, but the giggle turned into a laff and the laff turned into crying and the crying turned into an uncontrollable bit of hyperventilation.  The littlest thing and there was nothing I could do about it!! :oops:
Title: Do you ever get the urge to cry for no reason?
Post by: JazzyManda on June 22, 2003, 02:08:01 pm
hmm, i can bring tears to my eyes whenever i feel like it, but i never feel the need to cry, only if things are really bad, and nothing too bad has happened to me for a while. just one thing, but i'm not going into detail about that. so yeah.



Amanda