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Other Topics => Completely Off-Topic => Topic started by: rosieposy87 on June 28, 2003, 10:27:07 am
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Sorry this is so long, just look at the pics if you want (i'm really sorry they are so bloody huge aswell!!) lol, you can get a reaaally long description at: http://www.livejournal.com/users/rosieposy87
Getting Ready: I had got ready, the girls from next-door had done my hair and make-up and Adam called me while my hair was being done asking me how i was etc which was really sweet- i was feeling great.
Then my mum took about a million and a half pictures and i got rather annoyed. I waited for a while downstairs and then *ding dong* the doorbell rang and it was Adam! hee hee, we had loads of photos and it was so sweet because i could tell he was shaking!And the sweetest thing was he gave me a bunch of roses- my mum cried, as usual!
Outside my house:
(http://blackvulture.thiscrappyband.com/files/Leavers'_ball-R_and_A.jpg)
The car we went in was a ROLLS ROYCE CONVERTIBLE! ooh and i got a corsage too! wow, that was even sweeter!
The Drive: Halfway through Adam said "By the way, you look so amazing" and i was stunned! Then we drove up to the school gates and EVERYONE was waiting because so many people come in amazing cars. There were loads of people taking photos and this lady from the local paper took our picture and asked for our names!
The Ball: We lingered around for a while with everyone then Adam asked if we should go inside so we linked arms and walked into this huge marquee walkway and we queued to have our picture taken, then he said "so do you wanna go in?" so we walked in to the hall and we ended up walking in holding hands which i wasn't expecting but it was so cool anyway!
The Beggining:I started dancing immediately and Adam kinda hung back with his friends. So i boogied for a while with all my friends and sometimes Adam came to dance with me and i danced with all of his friends, they are so funny.
Me and All my friends:
(http://blackvulture.thiscrappyband.com/files/Leavers'_Ball_016.jpg)
The Middle: It was then time for the Teachers' Cabaret, the whole way through that Adam has his arms around my waist.
(http://blackvulture.thiscrappyband.com/files/Leavers'_Ball_007resized.jpg)
We danced some more, had some more photos, and then there were speaches and then it was time for one more song.I SO thought it was going to be a slow song, but UGH it wasn't and i was so offended! However, it was Oliver Cheetah and Room 5-Make Luv which was not only such a huge song here but i know Adam loves it so i went to find him and i kept thinking "do this now or you'll regret it, do it!!" so i put my arms around his neck and we danced for a teeny bit, but that song isn't good for that kinda dancing and what got me down was that he wasn't reciprocating- i was so sad about that.
The End: Then i went to get my bag and everything and he came over and we hugged and i thanked him for everything.
Well, i really really enjoyed myself but i was so sad that nothing more happened. Actually i think i had built up this scenario so much in my head that i was SURE that something was going to happen, and i was so upset. But really i think i did so well, and now i'm so happy with how it went- its like a whole different level now. I regret constantly looking around for Adam the whole time but there's nothing i can do now.
Me and Debs after The Ball at hannah's house:
(http://blackvulture.thiscrappyband.com/files/Leavers'_Ball-R_and_D_resized.jpg)
I need your opinions! Do you think i was right to make a move? Why didn't he reciprocate in the dancing thing!? I need your overall opinions, thankyou!
Rosie :)
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wow, you two look cute together :wink:
it was certainly right to make the first move, but i think he was just nervous. he will come around. :wink:
tell him how you feel the next time you see him. tell him that he is a great dancer, and tell him to prove that he is a great kisser aswell. lol
does this make any sense?
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cute cute!
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Those were some great pics!!!!
I think that he should have stayed with you more...I would....
I think you did fine!
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aw, my rosie is growing up so fast....
you look really good rosie! and the girl in the pink (i guess that's pink) looks like Racheal on "Friends" (she is cute)...
Glad you had fun! and made a good choice!
*is proud of my English mate"
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Rosie's still so cute...
I hope and wish the best for you. I cross my finger. ;-)
#1 Swiss Nessaholic... :wink:
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He sounds like a nice guy, but he's also apparently a sissy. I say go find yourself a guy who's actually not afraid to make a move on you. He didn't even dance with you the whole time? When I was in HS that was a big no no.
Glad you enjoyed yourself atleast!
---Andrew
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Rosie.. you look so damn cute! You two look great together and it sounds like you had a great time. Don't worry that you didn't kiss .. you got plenty of time for that so don't rush things. It'll all happen if it's going to.. it doesn't have to be at a ball / prom thing =)
*super huge hugs for my cute Winchestrian friend*
I'm so glad you had a good time .. and you look great! Love that first pic .. very sweet! =)
-- Matt x
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:D rosie! oh my dear, adam's a cutie and you look great together so don't let him go!
you were definetely right to make that move and i give you props for it--i would never ever have to courage to do that! he'll realize that he needs to do what he needs to do...uh, yea...he'll come around! :wink:
you looked beautiful by the way. good luck with him in the future!!!
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Nice pics ... :D
LMAO @ Andrew's comment, I pretty much agree. It is suprising he didn't dance with you that much and respond to your 'move' on him with one of his own.
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You look absolutely stunning Rosie dear...
and that boy better get his but in gear... if he could let you wander off he's got issues... ;)
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Aww thankyou so much everyone! Its so weird now that its over and i have to go to work experience tommorrow (with my local MP) which is a bit of a let down after what was supposed to be the night of my life! lol, i had a great time and it was okay that he didn't dance with me the whole time- i can understand why because i adore to dance and i don't know many boys who actually like to!
It was so sweet cos he was shaking when he came to pick me up and i realised he's not this tough popular boy that everyone loves after all, that made me feel better! I spoke to him on MSN last night and it was so weird because everything was just back to normal. What shall i do from here!?
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Glad you had a good time Rosie. You look great (and not at all like a shark) :)
-Kev
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...everything was just back to normal. What shall i do from here!?
Don't make a solid strategy for the future.. spend time with him and let it all happen. If it's meant to work out between you then it will. You don't want to go making too many plans. Just enjoy yourself.. that's the whole point after all =)
He's probably going through the same thing as you right now ; )
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If it's meant to work out between you then it will.
This notion right here is what is wrong with so much in this world. People expect things to fall in their laps because it was "meant to be". Well, life doesn't work like that; if you want something you have to work for it.
---Andrew
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If it's meant to work out between you then it will.
This notion right here is what is wrong with so much in this world. People expect things to fall in their laps because it was "meant to be". Well, life doesn't work like that; if you want something you have to work for it.
---Andrew
I didn't mean she should sit around and just wait for things to happen lol .. of course you work at it. I'm just saying there's no need to rush things and get stressed .. you're supposed to have fun. So just take it easy, hang out together and if it works then it works. If they're both attracted to each other then nature will take it's course!! =)
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Glad you had a good time Rosie. You look great (and not at all like a shark) :)
-Kev
I can't believe you remembered that! Scum shall be upgraded to Chum- love ya!!
Andrew and Matt: i get your point i really do, we are going to see each other again to go to the cinema or sth like that but i was so proud that i made a move! Andrew, you made me do it! lol, but UGH to his non reciprocation. lol
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but UGH to his non reciprocation. lol
Well, boys tend to be stupid (no offense to the male crowd reading this) and sometimes you just have to break it down for them. He could just be scared, or he could just be dense. Which ever one, you made the right choice in letting him know how you feel. When you go out to the cinema (movies, right?) see if he makes any moves...maybe he just needs a little motivation.
hope it all works out for you! :)
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but UGH to his non reciprocation. lol
Well, boys tend to be stupid (no offense to the male crowd reading this)
No no .. I agree, lol
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hehe good. i really didn't want to offend any of the guys....but hey, the truth hurts. :wink:
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hehe good. i really didn't want to offend any of the guys....but hey, the truth hurts. :wink:
haha
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yeah rosie... go to the cinema and see something SCARY... ;)
that gives you all kinds of excuses to grab him and hide your head in his shoulder and make him feel all protective. Yeah... corny... but feed the male ego and he'll be yours... lol
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yeah rosie... go to the cinema and see something SCARY... ;)
that gives you all kinds of excuses to grab him and hide your head in his shoulder and make him feel all protective. Yeah... corny... but feed the male ego and he'll be yours... lol
You know what'll happen though.. he'll jump and hide his head in your shoulder haha =)
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yeah rosie... go to the cinema and see something SCARY... ;)
that gives you all kinds of excuses to grab him and hide your head in his shoulder and make him feel all protective. Yeah... corny... but feed the male ego and he'll be yours... lol
You know what'll happen though.. he'll jump and hide his head in your shoulder haha =)
You have no idea how much i hate horror movies, they scare the absoloute crap out of me and not in a good way! He did suggest going to see Identity once but we never arranged it. ahhh scary!
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yeah rosie... go to the cinema and see something SCARY... ;)
that gives you all kinds of excuses to grab him and hide your head in his shoulder and make him feel all protective. Yeah... corny... but feed the male ego and he'll be yours... lol
You know what'll happen though.. he'll jump and hide his head in your shoulder haha =)
You have no idea how much i hate horror movies, they scare the absoloute crap out of me and not in a good way! He did suggest going to see Identity once but we never arranged it. ahhh scary!
I'm with ya there. If you took me to a scary film I'd be hiding behind you lol =)
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I love scary movies! Go Rosie! You can do i t...
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i was so proud that i made a move! Andrew, you made me do it! lol, but UGH to his non reciprocation. lol
I'm so proud of you rosie! We'll turn you into a Diva yet :wink:
---Andrew
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Go for it Rosie! We are proud of you!
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oh rosie!!!!
awwwwww you and adam make the cutest couple ever. seriously all that worrying for nothing...
okay so nothing "more" happened but you seemed to have the most amazing night, and....things may "develop".
maybe that night served its purpose in the sense that it made him realise how bloody lucky he is, and he won't be such an idiot about some things in future.
i'm so so glad you had a good time :) and you looked gorgeous.
and about me growing up? pah! my little crush chummete is all grown up too!!
*tear* - hahahaha
<3
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U look so cute and pretty Rosie :)
Totally stunning <3
It really looks like you had a wonderful time, im so glad.
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I am so glad he was being nice and not being the slime he was the past week - I told you everything would work out - i saw the pic on livejournal and knew i had to rush over and see the rest of them - xoxo
you did the right thing - but i think you would have had way more fun if you hadn't worried about him most of the night - i am so very proud of you though and as stated before you look absolutely amazing - can your neighbors do my make-up next time i have a big party???
xoxox
love!!!
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aww thankyou again everyone! i love you all so much! And yes stephy, come stay at me house and maybe u can! hee hee
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believe me - i want nothing more than to do the europe tour and meet you guys - you are the best!!!
xoxox
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believe me - i want nothing more than to do the europe tour and meet you guys - you are the best!!!
xoxox
Oh stephy you have NO idea how cool that would be! Now i can go to Spain on my own so i could meet you with Neri! YAY!
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Awwww, very cute pics of you Rosie dear!!!
Sorry I didn't reply sooner but me wasn't home! hehe!
And it's time for me to use my super special smiley! :usa: teehee
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8O Great dress!
Hmmm..., no kiss huh? But he was shaking..., and you were the one that caused that little eathquake under his feet. Yea he was probably just really nervous..., and being surrounded with millions of others doesn't make things easier then.
So just tell him you had such a wonderfull night and you'd like to go out with him again..., don't call it a date (the word might scare him, or make him feel insecure at the actual date)..., make sure it's just you two..., no other friends..., just have fun..., no expectations and at the end of the night you could ask him how he feels about you.
Or..., find out what kind of music he likes, look for a forum he posts on..., he's probably writing the exact same word as you do... :D
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Glad you had a good time Rosie. You look great (and not at all like a shark) :)
I can't believe you remembered that! Scum shall be upgraded to Chum- love ya!!
An upgrade, hurrah 8) Although I suspect it won't be long until it's back to Scum, lol (I've actually grown quite accustomed to it) ;)
If it helps: If Adam is anything like me on the dance floor, all his efforts would have been going into just not looking like a complete idiot :? Maybe a darkened cinema will be more of a confidence inducing scene :) Good luck.
-Kev
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I saw him at college today and basically he totally ignored me, i am going to give up soon!lol, awww scum i shall call u that if u really want!