NESSAholics.com
Other Topics => Completely Off-Topic => Topic started by: x Jennifer x on July 10, 2003, 11:37:52 am
-
well, it all started when i moved away from my home , since i was 18 i wnted to be on my own, try to be a mature young lady , try to be independent, and show my parents that i don't really need them...
blah blah blah...
anyway to get the point, i told either of the two that if there is a time that i need something from them, i will let them know...but other then that not to spoil me so much..because trust e all they ever did was spoil me.. and i don't know, but i'm tired of feeling like shit....they keep sending me erm..checks in the mail which kinda annoys me because its get me thinking that they dont belive in me..like i need them or something...and well i have everything i culd possibly need for the time being...so i called my mom a few weeks ago and told her to stop sending them and she's got all pissed and started bitching at me which makes now feel bad because i hate fighting with my paents over stupid things...really
but somehow she still has issues of wanting to take care of me...she sent me a check worth of $1,700 in the mail today! gosh damn, and was like she doesnt get a clue of what i told her..i mean i dont mind taking the money..sheesh who wouldnt take it? BUT the point is it makes me feel like a nobody..and i dont want her supporting me like some kid and with all do respect i want er to keep the money because i know she needs it considering the fact my brother is atending college and stuff etc.
and i dunno what to do anymore ..they wont listen to me...:cry:
do you think i should leave it alone , change my mailing addresses,or do you really want me to shut the fuck up now because honestly i don't think you give a shit what i just typed?.. 8O
well whatever..if you have some kind of piece of advice..post it
if not, i respect that, i mean you don't really have to give a shit :mrgreen:
-
Just leave it alone. They're sending you money, for Chrissake! Don't think of it as them feeling sorry for you, just think of it as your Mom caring for you. ;)
-
..thanks CeCe...you always have something nice to say..i appreciate that SO very much!
Next?
-
are you turning down money?
geez, well feel free to send it to me!
i enjoy having my parents spoil me 8)
-
Well...I would like it if my parents spoiled me....But I have a really hard time with my parents....Just take the money and be thankful...Thats all I would do...
-
um thanks you guys..it means a lot to me , and i can see where you are all coming from, but um..it still makes me feel kinda uncomfortable.. i'm going to take a few bucks out and send the rest back.......
Or do some worthy for once and pay for daniel's lp tickets..lol
-
Use it to invest in yourself, but spend it wisely. Your brother is investing in himself(via your parents,) and you should too. If you want to be a model or actress, then use the money to that end, especially if you don't really need it. But use your head. Don't be scammed.
Either that or put a down payment down on a porche for yourself or your dad and tell them what you are doing with the cash, if you know what I mean. That is if you never want cash again :wink:
tylor
-
Use it to invest in yourself, but spend it wisely. Your brother is investing in himself(via your parents,) and you should too. If you want to be a model or actress, then use the money to that end, especially if you don't really need it. But use your head. Don't be scammed.
Either that or put a down payment down on a porche for yourself or your dad and tell them what you are doing with the cash, if you know what I mean. That is if you never want cash again :wink:
tylor
True! geez you guys have lots of ideas..i know what you are sayin..that way if i do some worthy of it..they will belive in me!!!! and i will feel much better..wow thanks..
-
I'd suggest to send everything back. If you keep some they'll still think you need at least some cash and they probably won't stop sending it. I'd also include a letter in which you tell them you'd like to a "independent young lady" and that it also means being independent from them...
-
now i'm confused again =\
ok ok! i'll think of something..thanks for the advice everyone!
i really appreciate it..and i'll let you know what i've done with it.. :!:
-
Yeah, VC's parents were helping her. Look what you can do with help? Though her parents were pushing her through the door and stuff like that.
tylor
-
invest it for a few years, then give your parents more back...or just give them what they gave you and keep what you "earned".
-
I'd suggest to send everything back. If you keep some they'll still think you need at least some cash and they probably won't stop sending it. I'd also include a letter in which you tell them you'd like to a "independent young lady" and that it also means being independent from them...
Yeah I was thinking that too......but I figured if she wants to get somewhere then she might actaully be able to use it for some good. I don't know....
Good luck Jennifer.
tylor
-
darn it, double post.....I thought it didn't post....so I sent it......please erase one....thanks....
tylor
-
$$$$$$$$$$$$$!!!!
-
well,i decided to do something with the moneyLol! i registered for a nother acting class which starts this fall.that costed $500.00 for 2 semesters..so hopefully after the final semester..i'll be getting acting work for sure....i really really really want to be an actress...i have the passion in me...and i think its a job i would love always....and not to forget it could be a fun expierence for me...and i'm going to save the rest for somehting else..... :wink:
weeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee!
-
Great! See, I hope you do well!
-
Thank you daniel, i got your pm btw, i'll check it out later,right now i gotta go run some errands...........
:razz:
lata~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
-
Cool! It's a purrty shirt...LoL!
People who don't know wha were talking about are probably saying to themselves right now, "wha the hell?"