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Other Topics => Polls => Topic started by: Si on November 10, 2003, 01:44:43 pm
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What do you think is a sign of disrespect..?
I, for one, think that being late to appointments frequently is a sign of disrespect.
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:roll: literally everyone in Spain is late to most appointments... we're a rude country lol
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lol... i'm rarely late to things for that reason!
hmmm... not listening when someone is talking is.
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when someone wants to talk to you about things going on in their life and you start talking about yourself and your problems... grrrr. i see ppl doing that all the time and its so frustrating.
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when someone just randomly sends me an instant message and expects me to know who they are, especially if they have never met me or talked to me before. When I ask who they are and how they got my sn they get all annoyed like i'm supposed to be this all knowing being, I may be "the wise one" but I'm not THAT good :wink: Anyway, I just think it's inconsiderate not to identify yourself to a stranger, even if it's only online.
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when someone just randomly sends me an instant message and expects me to know who they are, especially if they have never met me or talked to me before. When I ask who they are and how they got my sn they get all annoyed like i'm supposed to be this all knowing being, I may be "the wise one" but I'm not THAT good :wink: Anyway, I just think it's inconsiderate not to identify yourself to a stranger, even if it's only online.
oh i agree! ppl do that to me all the time, and they think its funny that i don't know who they are, and NEVER tell me who they are!
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What do you think is a sign of disrespect..?
I, for one, think that being late to appointments frequently is a sign of disrespect.
I think cheating on a signficant other is a major sign of disrespect. If you find yourself wanting to cheat, atleast have the courtesty to break up with your current GF or BF first.
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Smoking cigarrettes around people who would prefer you not to smoke right next to them. And not using your manners when people inform you of the fact.
People who don't tell you politely to smoke somewhere else because the smoke bothers them.
tylor
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You know what else I just thought of that is a sign of disrespect? Repeating something said to you in private to others.
Doesn't even matter what it is or how harmless it is.... it's a sign of respect.
I have one friend who, EVERYTIME I tell her something in private, I can expect it to get repeated to atleast 3 other people no matter HOW much I stress that she has to be discreet about it. So I just stopped telling her anything that required discretion.
amiright?
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From how i see it, Andrew is close to my point....However id just say any breach of honesty is a sign of disrespect.
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You know what else I just thought of that is a sign of disrespect? Repeating something said to you in private to others.
Doesn't even matter what it is or how harmless it is.... it's a sign of respect.
I have one friend who, EVERYTIME I tell her something in private, I can expect it to get repeated to atleast 3 other people no matter HOW much I stress that she has to be discreet about it. So I just stopped telling her anything that required discretion.
amiright?
That always happens to me. I suppose that is just a typical sign of teenage girl though. One girl, if i told her who i fancied, she would go right up and tell him. Yet you always feel drawn to keep telling those people those things, because its fun to have someone to confide in. Except its not really 'confiding' at all, because all and sundry are gonna know within the next few minutes!
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when someone gets annoyed at you but they don't have the balls to come and tell you to your face so they talk about you behind your back and act blaintly rude to you. :roll: bah, i hate petty highschool crap.
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when someone gets annoyed at you but they don't have the balls to come and tell you to your face so they talk about you behind your back and act blaintly rude to you. :roll: bah, i hate petty highschool crap.
sorry sis, but it doesn't stop after highschool
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sorry sis, but it doesn't stop after highschool
Truthery.
Not that I'm gonna name any names or anything :roll:
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sorry sis, but it doesn't stop after highschool
true, but when you're in college you have less of a chance of seeing that person(s) [depending on the size of the college of course]. and then when you're an adult you can go wherever the hell you like to get away from that person(s). whereas highschool, you are forced to see that person(s) everyday until graduation.
Truthery.
haha....truthery....such a fun word.
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I think people who whisper in front of you and then giggle afterwards but refuse to tell you what they said are very disrespectful. And if they point at you while they're whispering its the biggest piss-off ever. Enough withheld secrets! Just tell me goddamit!
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eh.......................
not listening when others as speaking?
i dunno haha...after all the lectures teachers have given on disrespect i can't remember any of it hah.
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disrespectful...............kylie minogue
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People that constantly talk about themselves.. and their problems..
They don't ever ask how you are... and if you EVER start talking about yourself they turn the conversation right back to them.
and.. CANCELING at the last minute.
Ugh. It just happened to me.
I'm really annoyed.
The person's didn't really apologize either.
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Smoking cigarrettes around people who would prefer you not to smoke right next to them. And not using your manners when people inform you of the fact.
tylor
yeah... lol, thats annoying. especially to me cause i'm allergic.
i was in line, and my friend went to get something to drink, and i had to hold our place, i knew if i stepped out i'd loose my place! the guy behind me started smoking... and he wouldnt stop, even tho i let him know, and he coulda stepped out since his friend was there. and i couldnt move, so i was like "ok, i'll stick it out" i just didnt breath that much... lol, but i was still sick in bed with 104 fever for a week because of that guy. yeah... its bad.
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Smoking cigarrettes around people who would prefer you not to smoke right next to them. And not using your manners when people inform you of the fact.
tylor
yeah... lol, thats annoying. especially to me cause i'm allergic.
i was in line, and my friend went to get something to drink, and i had to hold our place, i knew if i stepped out i'd loose my place! the guy behind me started smoking... and he wouldnt stop, even tho i let him know, and he coulda stepped out since his friend was there. and i couldnt move, so i was like "ok, i'll stick it out" i just didnt breath that much... lol, but i was still sick in bed with 104 fever for a week because of that guy. yeah... its bad.
I'm sorry to hear that Holly. What a jerk. If I ever get to meet you I'll be sure not to smoke next to you. I do smoke by the way.
tylor
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Smoking cigarrettes around people who would prefer you not to smoke right next to them. And not using your manners when people inform you of the fact.
tylor
yeah... lol, thats annoying. especially to me cause i'm allergic.
i was in line, and my friend went to get something to drink, and i had to hold our place, i knew if i stepped out i'd loose my place! the guy behind me started smoking... and he wouldnt stop, even tho i let him know, and he coulda stepped out since his friend was there. and i couldnt move, so i was like "ok, i'll stick it out" i just didnt breath that much... lol, but i was still sick in bed with 104 fever for a week because of that guy. yeah... its bad.
I know how u feel. I have asthema and smoke kills me to.
Stupid Smokers *shakes fist* (sorry to anyone that smokes)
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Smoking cigarrettes around people who would prefer you not to smoke right next to them. And not using your manners when people inform you of the fact.
tylor
yeah... lol, thats annoying. especially to me cause i'm allergic.
i was in line, and my friend went to get something to drink, and i had to hold our place, i knew if i stepped out i'd loose my place! the guy behind me started smoking... and he wouldnt stop, even tho i let him know, and he coulda stepped out since his friend was there. and i couldnt move, so i was like "ok, i'll stick it out" i just didnt breath that much... lol, but i was still sick in bed with 104 fever for a week because of that guy. yeah... its bad.
I'm sorry to hear that Holly. What a jerk. If I ever get to meet you I'll be sure not to smoke next to you. I do smoke by the way.
tylor
thanks! i dont mind smokers... lol, as long as they dont do it close to me!
i'm also allergic to cigars, and even smoke from fires and insense can make me feel sick, but not that much.
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Ok, I got another one... (yeah, yeah, yeah, I bitch a lot.)
I can't STAND people who start fights or arguments but the first time things start to like they aren't going his or her way, they stop. Either they change the subject, or stop responding ot whatever.
My brother LOVES to start arguments, which is fine with me, but then as SOON as I make a point he can't refute he says "I don't wanna argue about it anymore".
It's OK to not want to fight about something, but it's cowardly to stop fighting as soon as things stop going your way and refusing to admit that you don't have an answer.
It's disrespectful to pick a fight if you're too chicken shit to finish it.
But THANKFULLY I don't know anyone on this board who would do something like that.......
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Ok, I got another one... (yeah, yeah, yeah, I bitch a lot.)
I can't STAND people who start fights or arguments but the first time things start to like they aren't going his or her way, they stop. Either they change the subject, or stop responding ot whatever.
My brother LOVES to start arguments, which is fine with me, but then as SOON as I make a point he can't refute he says "I don't wanna argue about it anymore".
It's OK to not want to fight about something, but it's cowardly to stop fighting as soon as things stop going your way and refusing to admit that you don't have an answer.
It's disrespectful to pick a fight if you're too chicken shit to finish it.
But THANKFULLY I don't know anyone on this board who would do something like that.......
YEAH! or they do the whole "i'm a better person" act and pretend to be all diplomatic and like "shall we not argue rosie? lets just love one another."
ARGHHH my brother uses that one all the time!
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Making life hell for someone else for entertainment.
tylor
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Making life hell for someone else for entertainment.
tylor
Really? You think that's disrespectful? I think it's kinda fun......
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Making life hell for someone else for entertainment.
tylor
Really? You think that's disrespectful? I think it's kinda fun......
ok, fun and disrespectful. It is entertainment....
tylor
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Making life hell for someone else for entertainment.
tylor
Really? You think that's disrespectful? I think it's kinda fun......
lol... really? i couldnt tell! :lol:
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Making life hell for someone else for entertainment.
tylor
Really? You think that's disrespectful? I think it's kinda fun......
SCHADENFREUDE!!!!!
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SCHADENFREUDE!!!!!
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ditto :?
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SCHADENFREUDE!!!!!
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i think it means someone who enjoys seeing others in pain... or something like that, lol, not sure tho, heard it somewhere
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SCHADENFREUDE!!!!!
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looks like it's German or Dutch....damn this linguistics course making me all analytical and stuff
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scha·den·freu·de (shädn-froid) n.
Pleasure derived from the misfortunes of others.
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oh......I meant other than S&M Andrew :wink:
LOL
tylor
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i think the biggest disrespect is when people are loud or interrupt someone while they are sleeping...
kelley