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Other Topics => Completely Off-Topic => Topic started by: Manda on January 17, 2004, 12:08:57 am
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We all have our good days, and we all have our bad day's.
I had a bad day, but I dont think leaving is the way to go.
I very much like this board, always will. I enjoy it here, and some drama shouldn't make my time here any different.
:wink:
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What belongs to days? O_o
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*hug*
Peace! That's what we want!! :wink:
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awww, thanks Tia.
I could never leave one of my best buds here, *hug*
*sniff* you make me feel very welcome, and always have, thank you.
Manda
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*is confuuused*
don't leeeave maaaanda, there will be nobody to steal food from!
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awwww, thanks.
my thread was locked, now its not.
which is pretty weird stuff. lol
*hug* your one of the people that I want to stay for....
Manda
much love to you Cheyenne.
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awwww, thanks.
my thread was locked, now its not.
which is pretty weird stuff. lol
Yeah...Katia, maybe :?:
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I don't think anyone should "leave" the board after having " a bad day"
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I don't think anyone should "leave" the board after having " a bad day"
I agree...things will get better!
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Thanks Tia.
*hug*
Manda
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Thanks Tia.
*hug*
Manda
Anytime, hun. Anytime... :)
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A Letter to anyone and everyone thinking about replying to this thread...
i ASKED Manda to post this after she and i discussed what happened a few days ago. I felt it was better that she let people know how she was having a bad day, she was upset, and things escalated and thus she did not plan on leaving NH.com. *IF* you have a problem with it, address it with me. This thread is staying here, it is not a chat thread, or posting she is here... she wanted to say something about the issues that happened the other day and how she got a little upset (like EVERYONE else) and shouldn't have said some of the things she said (like EVERYONE else). Now back off and if you don't have anything nice to say, why even bother posting?
-katia
p.s. remember we also said we'd be very LOOSE on the Off-Topic forum...
awwww, thanks.
my thread was locked, now its not.
which is pretty weird stuff. lol
Yeah...Katia, maybe :?:
maybe...
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We :heart: Katia! Spreading the Nessa love... *hug*
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Thanks Katia.
:D
Manda
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Now back off and if you don't have anything nice to say, why even bother posting?
That is the definition of the phrase "logical falacy". If people only posted "nice" things then the entire board would just be one giant self-afirmation party. If all you want to do is come here to feel good about yourself then we need a forum called "yay! I love playing with myself!"
In the mean time, American and internet culture says "do something stupid, and you WILL get yelled at for it". Which is the way life should be. Every action has consequences.
I haven't actually read one of AP's posts in like a month... so I have no idea what did or did not happen "the other day", and frankly, I don't care. I am simply responding to your comment, Katia.
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I agree with Andrew.
It's great that you don't want to hurt someone's feelings or what not, but delete other's opinions? It's kind of a turn off to come here, saying "well your opinion doesn't count because we care about the other person" what I was saying was what I felt...It got deleted. I felt that I was being extremly nice in that thread. If you want to kill a good thing, go ahead... People have "bad days" yea..but it isn't hard to restrain from posting (yea, yea I read some of my posts...). I am not gonna be all like "it's okay!" because to me, it is not okay. I don't know how many will back me up, but that's how I feel.
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I agree with Andrew.
It's great that you don't want to hurt someone's feelings or what not, but delete other's opinions? It's kind of a turn off to come here, saying "well your opinion doesn't count because we care about the other person" what I was saying was what I felt...It got deleted. I felt that I was being extremly nice in that thread. If you want to kill a good thing, go ahead... People have "bad days" yea..but it isn't hard to restrain from posting (yea, yea I read some of my posts...). I am not gonna be all like "it's okay!" because to me, it is not okay. I don't know how many will back me up, but that's how I feel.
I agree that there were wrong doings.. on both sides, and I'm one to be able to move past things, as I have personally spoken to manda, but I really don't believe its fair to delete peoples posts, I read joey's post last night and I didn't believe it was that offensive at all. I want to say that.... lately I've been seeing a LOT of unnecessary posts, and wasn't it one of the things we were trying to get away from.... just making silly posts? This board isn't about post count.. its about content of posts. I'm just extemely tired of seeing posts that have NO point (and i know that once in a while everyone does it). Also, how fair is it to delete peoples posts (unless they're truly offensive)... people should be allowed to state their opinion... and i know its not just joey. Idk.. I guess I'm just really sick of this whole situation...
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I guess I'm just really sick of this whole situation...
werd
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Now back off and if you don't have anything nice to say, why even bother posting?
In the mean time, American and internet culture says "do something stupid, and you WILL get yelled at for it". Which is the way life should be. Every action has consequences.
I do agree in principle with your point Andrew. However- there are ways of 'yelling' at people so that they feel they can better themselves. This principle you state assumes that people never make mistakes, and everyone makes mistakes. I'm certainly not suggesting that people don't suffer the consequences of their actions, i'm just suggesting there are other ways of going about it than yelling. (But by all means yell when they're arrogant about it and don't apologise. lol)
P.S LMAO @ Si
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It's all about the music baby...
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Now back off and if you don't have anything nice to say, why even bother posting?
In the mean time, American and internet culture says "do something stupid, and you WILL get yelled at for it". Which is the way life should be. Every action has consequences.
I do agree in principle with your point Andrew. However- there are ways of 'yelling' at people so that they feel they can better themselves. This principle you state assumes that people never make mistakes, and everyone makes mistakes. I'm certainly not suggesting that people don't suffer the consequences of their actions, i'm just suggesting there are other ways of going about it than yelling. (But by all means yell when they're arrogant about it and don't apologise. lol)
P.S LMAO @ Si
Rosie, Rosie, Rosie...
You always manage to say everything so fabulously... :roll:
It's all about the music baby...
As Si would say...werd
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P.S LMAO @ Si
8O
wha wha what did I do...?
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P.S LMAO @ Si
8O
wha wha what did I do...?
You were funny!
I guess I'm just really sick of this whole situation...
werd
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P.S LMAO @ Si
8O
wha wha what did I do...?
You were funny!
I guess I'm just really sick of this whole situation...
werd
ahh, thanks for letting me know
: )
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Glad to see those positive thoughts and opinion's.
:D
Manda
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How about this Andrew, instead of a Happy Section, lets have the bitch section. We can go in there and whine and fuss and complain about anything and everything we want. No rules. And if people don't like hearing that NOT EVERYONE LIKES THEM ALL THE TIME, then they don't have to come in the section. Then the rest of the foum can be happy happy bounce bounce lets go blow bubbles and play hopscotch.
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How about this Andrew, instead of a Happy Section, lets have the bitch section. We can go in there and whine and fuss and complain about anything and everything we want. No rules. And if people don't like hearing that NOT EVERYONE LIKES THEM ALL THE TIME, then they don't have to come in the section. Then the rest of the foum can be happy happy bounce bounce lets go blow bubbles and play hopscotch.
Amen brother! I would be sooooo ruthless there :twisted:
@ Rosie - I don't make mistakes. :D
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manda-panda is right. We all have our bad days. I havne't been here that long. I just know that I am here cause I like Vanessa Carlton. I love the music. Music is my life. It has gotten me through a lot of battles.
So.. everyone.. group f-in hug.
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manda-panda is right. We all have our bad days. I havne't been here that long. I just know that I am here cause I like Vanessa Carlton. I love the music. Music is my life. It has gotten me through a lot of battles.
So.. everyone.. group f-in hug.
Worst. Idea. Ever.
Group hugs never accomplish anything other than pushing the problem back so the NEXT time it happens it will be 10 times worse.
Problems are solved via discussion, planning, execution and resolution, not sentimentality.
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P.S LMAO @ Si
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wha wha what did I do...?
You were funny!
I guess I'm just really sick of this whole situation...
werd
ahh, thanks for letting me know
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You're very welcome! :wink:
And Andrew - put a little love in your heart! :-P
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manda-panda is right. We all have our bad days. I havne't been here that long. I just know that I am here cause I like Vanessa Carlton. I love the music. Music is my life. It has gotten me through a lot of battles.
So.. everyone.. group f-in hug.
Worst. Idea. Ever.
Group hugs never accomplish anything other than pushing the problem back so the NEXT time it happens it will be 10 times worse.
Problems are solved via discussion, planning, execution and resolution, not sentimentality.
I think she was kinda joking, ahhh someone really is having a bad day!!
@ Rosie- I don't make mistakes :D
Oh well THAT wasn't a predictable answer... :roll:
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I'll hug you anyway.
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I concur with the above statements of Andrew, Joey, and for the most part Rosie. When i came here i got living hell for making pointless posts from lots of member even though i wasnt technically a newbie. And for some reason i was wrong then? Maybe i should have just said i was having a bad day
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I'll hug you anyway.
LOL, try and hug Andrew- ahh what a classic sight that would be! *sniggers*
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I'll hug you anyway.
LOL, try and hug Andrew- ahh what a classic sight that would be! *sniggers*
don't think he would deny a hug from fairy (esp. if he looked in the picture thread) haha...but he might expect more later.
And for some reason i was wrong then? Maybe i should have just said i was having a bad day
so true.
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lol @ all you people!
As for my bad day... you have no idea :cry:
But I am never one to turn down a hug......
but thanks for accusing me of being a pervert, Joey :wink:
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don't think he would deny a hug from fairy (esp. if he looked in the picture thread) haha...but he might expect more later.
::dances::
As for my bad day... you have no idea
::millions of hugs::
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As for my bad day... you have no idea :cry:
But I am never one to turn down a hug......
Awww...*hugs*
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don't think he would deny a hug from fairy (esp. if he looked in the picture thread) haha...but he might expect more later.
::dances::
As for my bad day... you have no idea
::millions of hugs::
ok, so I went and checked out the pictures thread and you have freaky cool eyes.
Those colored contacts? If not, that's really cool.
Edit @ Tia - Why did you think you would be on my Ignore list, anyways? You've never pissed me off.... have you?
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Edit @ Tia - Why did you think you would be on my Ignore list, anyways?
I was just kidding, lol.
You've never pissed me off.... have you?
I dunno...have I? :-P
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I was just kidding, lol.
You've never pissed me off.... have you?
I dunno...have I? :-P
No... but we can pretend if you want :twisted:
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I was just kidding, lol.
You've never pissed me off.... have you?
I dunno...have I? :-P
No... but we can pretend if you want :twisted:
Okies...
Does spanking qualify as annoying?
:spank:
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Those are my eyes :)
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Those are my eyes :)
Then you have very pretty eyes! :wink:
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Okies...
Does spanking qualify as annoying?
:spank:
13 year olds should beware of talking about spanking on the internet :wink:
@Fairy - Wicked.
I am gonna go home and have a bad evening to go along with my bad day. Everyone wish me luck on the badness! :roll:
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Okies...
Does spanking qualify as annoying?
:spank:
13 year olds should beware of talking about spanking on the internet :wink:
How many times have I been told that now...? :roll:
I am gonna go home and have a bad evening to go along with my bad day. Everyone wish me luck on the badness! :roll:
Good luck! :wink:
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Good luck..
I'll have you know I typed 'good lick' first.. ahahhahah
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Good luck..
I'll have you know I typed 'good lick' first.. ahahhahah
:roflmao:
I tried sarcasm, but I didn't wanna seem like a miserable cow so I went for the nice option... :roll:
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lol, well i just can't type. Be aware of some of the things I might accidently type.. it=tit ahah!
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lol, well i just can't type. Be aware of some of the things I might accidently type.. it=tit ahah!
LOL!
Care to elaborate...? :wink:
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oh my.. lol WE ALL DO that whole.. 'make a weird typ-o' like I always mess up and type lick here instead of CLICK here..
::runs in cirlcles::
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oh my.. lol WE ALL DO that whole.. 'make a weird typ-o' like I always mess up and type lick here instead of CLICK here..
::runs in cirlcles::
LOL! Stop making me dizzy! :razz:
Anyways, I'm gonna go to bed now - night! xox
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haha I don't know what's worse you typed "good lick" or told us you did.
HAHA! I keed I keed.
and good luck to Andrew.
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haha I don't know what's worse you typed "good lick" or told us you did.
HAHA! I keed I keed.
and good luck to Andrew.
8) I wanted to make him laugh.. so I can be all irresitably funny and .. stuff.
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Okies...
Does spanking qualify as annoying?
:spank:
13 year olds should beware of talking about spanking on the internet :wink:
How many times have I been told that now...? :roll:
EWWW This is getting NaStY!
Andrew- maybe i will send you that monacle, just to cheer you up. (i just had the funniest image of you and your housemate:
Andrew:"Its here its here!!"
Housemate: "what's here?"
Andrew: "my monacle, weeeee!" *skips around the house*)
I really should stop telling people whats going on in my head, lol.
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Okies...
Does spanking qualify as annoying?
:spank:
13 year olds should beware of talking about spanking on the internet :wink:
How many times have I been told that now...? :roll:
EWWW This is getting NaStY!
I was joking! I was joking!
Geez...you really think I'd spank anyone?! :roll:
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EWWW This is getting NaStY!
Andrew- maybe i will send you that monacle, just to cheer you up. (i just had the funniest image of you and your housemate:
Andrew:"Its here its here!!"
Housemate: "what's here?"
Andrew: "my monacle, weeeee!" *skips around the house*)
I really should stop telling people whats going on in my head, lol.
Lol!
But I don't have housemates anymore :cry:
I got my own place about a year ago.... except for my two cats. Who are both fat and lazy.
Last night actually got better.... surprisingly. But I think it might have just been a calm before the real storm... which is coming up.