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Title: My life's gone to hell...
Post by: Chloe on February 16, 2004, 11:20:23 am
okay things between me and my stepdad (which have been BAD before) just got all better, and now i'm almost close to him. SO yesterday i found out that he might move to Kuwait for a year for this job, and I DON'T WANT HIM TO GO!!! and if he doesn't end up moving to kuwait, then our whole family might have to move somewhere else out of state, and i don't want to leave home. i GREW UP here. i cried for like an hour last night. i am so confused it scares me!!! either way it's going to be bad. and i know people have it worse... but it's hard to think that way. i'm so upset today... just pray that he doesn't get this job!!! everything's gotten worse just when it was all better.  :cry:
Title: My life's gone to hell...
Post by: Si on February 16, 2004, 11:27:25 am
*don't know what to say

I hope everything works out for you...
goodluck
Title: My life's gone to hell...
Post by: rosieposy87 on February 16, 2004, 11:36:25 am
Its alright, don't cry. Sometimes things happen for a reason. Change is just an inevitable part of life, although its hard to deal with- sometimes it has to happen. I hope you're okay dear.
Title: My life's gone to hell...
Post by: xxjenniferxx on February 16, 2004, 12:59:12 pm
your life didn't go to hell, it just moved forward and you're not  ready for it...lol you're already sad about something that hasn't even happened yet...  :wink:  and how do you know its going to be bad when you have yet expierenced it?..i think you're just afraid of change ..don't fret so much.....lol

i'm sure you  will be just fine...and so will everything else..
Title: My life's gone to hell...
Post by: Manda on February 16, 2004, 01:41:45 pm
I'm sorry Chloe, I wish I could do more for you and give you some real sympathy.

Maybe jennifer is right about moving forward and your just not ready for it, growing up I moved like every three years, and it was hard for me, making friends, switiching schools, things like that.

But you have to be positivie, its okay to cry, let your feelings out, don't keep them all bottled up.

;)

*hug*

I do hope things work out for you :heart:

Manda
Title: My life's gone to hell...
Post by: Chloe on February 16, 2004, 02:07:31 pm
thanks you guys... i feel a little better now. i'm one of those people that doesn't like anything to change. thanks for your support everyone *hug*
Title: My life's gone to hell...
Post by: vanessafan18 on February 16, 2004, 02:24:23 pm
Aww I'm sorry Chloe *big hugs* Unfortunately change is part of life and it can be hard to deal with. Like Amanda said don't bottle things up, tell someone close to you how you are feeling.

I hope things end up ok for you. Good luck.

Georgie xoxoxox
Title: My life's gone to hell...
Post by: Tia on February 16, 2004, 02:47:07 pm
Quote from: "rosieposy87"
Sometimes things happen for a reason. Change is just an inevitable part of life, although its hard to deal with- sometimes it has to happen.


How do say exactly what I'm trying to get out, Rosie?! :?

Chloe - What she said, lol. Just remember - you always have us NESSAholics! Love ya girly *hugs*
Title: My life's gone to hell...
Post by: Chloe on February 16, 2004, 03:20:11 pm
Quote from: "Tia"
Chloe - What she said, lol. Just remember - you always have us NESSAholics! Love ya girly *hugs*


love ya too Tia!

i don't know what i would do without you guys.  :)
Title: My life's gone to hell...
Post by: sayyouwould on February 16, 2004, 04:09:44 pm
If you have to move...you get to start over...there aren't many times in life when you get to...make the best out of it...everything happens for a reason...that's what makes life so rich.
Title: My life's gone to hell...
Post by: Chloe on February 16, 2004, 04:12:49 pm
yeah... i know. it'll be hard accepting it if i DO have to move but i don't want my stepdad to leave. i know i'll get over it though. it's just really hard
Title: My life's gone to hell...
Post by: MyLifeIsLikeATM on February 16, 2004, 06:56:59 pm
Two years ago i had to move from where i grew up..and believe me i hated it. i thought i would never forgive my parents for moving me. but its been two years and i actually like it better here. i have made new friends, go to a great school and got an awesome new piano teacher. sometimes change is good. i know its hard to accept now, but just know that it only gets better  :)
Title: My life's gone to hell...
Post by: Holly on February 16, 2004, 07:11:47 pm
I know how you feel about the possiblity of moving thing... I have to move away from the place I grew up next year too. I am very nervous and scared about it. But on the other hand, it's exciting. Change is an important part of life...
Title: My life's gone to hell...
Post by: Manda on February 16, 2004, 07:47:55 pm
Same here Jacquie, I moved in 7 grade...I only moved to the next city though. :D

but all my friends and I never kept in touch, it was hard at first, but my first day at Adams (my middle school) I met so many great wonderful people, and now that I play Lacrosse for my rival school, I get to see all the people I left behind.

:D

Your a strong person chloe, inside and out.

I know whatever challenge comes your way, or hardship for that matter you will get through it positively.

Manda
Title: My life's gone to hell...
Post by: Tia on February 17, 2004, 06:33:17 am
Quote from: "AFallingStar"
Quote from: "Tia"
Chloe - What she said, lol. Just remember - you always have us NESSAholics! Love ya girly *hugs*


love ya too Tia!

i don't know what i would do without you guys.  :)


*hug*

Hopefully, you'll never have to find out!!