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Other Topics => Completely Off-Topic => Topic started by: Manda on February 28, 2004, 09:54:38 am
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I go listen to music or go outside and play lacrosse, throwing the ball around really helps me out.
:D
you?
:? Manda :?
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Punch and kick and throw stuff and whack tennis balls around and yell at the cat and listen to blaring rock music 8O
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wow....Mama, your a violent one!
*cowers*
Manda
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Haha, I know! :twisted: :wink:
But I only hurt stuff, never people or animals or anything like that...
Except for when I say really nasty things coz I'm all down and fed-up
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I've had some anger issues with people, If I get really mad and you piss me off, I can get physical...:?
but that was rare.
Manda
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If I get really mad and you piss me off, I can get physical...:?
but that was rare.
Same here...haha. I've only ever been in one *fight* though - and SHE started it!! :wink:
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alright!
you go Mama!
:D
kick some major ass!
:wink:
Manda
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Muahahaha! :lol:
:roflmao:
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vent with friends online or go into *neat-freak-mode* lol and i clean EVERYTHING :wink: :wink: :wink: :wink:
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lol
My mom cooks and cleans when she's mad!
I hate it!
Manda
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My mum eats chocolate when she's mad! LOL!
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i play the piano when i'm mad.
Amanda
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My mum eats chocolate when she's mad! LOL!
lmao!!!
thats hilarious Mama!
I dont much like chocolate...:P
Manda
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8O
but why?!
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I've never heard of someone eating chocolate when they are mad...'cept for my friend's bible study teacher....everytime we saw her eating chocolate we knew it wasn't good.
no, no, no, no, no....:?
lol
reminds me of Patty Anne.
:D
Manda
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Hrrmm...I eat chocolate when I'm depressed, lol.
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I don't get angry a lot! But when I do, listening to music or talking helps me. Like the other night I was pissed about a teacher, but after talking to my parents about her for awhile, i was better! Also, Livejournals are a good place to rant, lol.
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when I'm depressed I read depressing poems and listen to depressing music...lol
Manda
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*sits and waits for Mama*
hmmm, maybe she left....bye Mama! :D
Manda
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when I'm depressed I read depressing poems and listen to depressing music...lol
Manda
me too! lol, it helps!!
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heck yes!
Manda
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When I'm extremely mad, I tend to say some pretty terrible things, especially to my parents. I get very rude and don't know when to close my mouth. Then I run up to my room, slam the door and blare some music that I know my parents hate. Usually this is followed by swearing in my room, then a little bit of tears. Hahaha. Its a routine I think, then once i settle down, I listen to some music which I can relate to at that moment... and sometimes write poems. Also, then I give the silent treatment for a bit
O:-)
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*sits and waits for Mama*
hmmm, maybe she left....bye Mama! :D
I went for my dinner! Sorry hun...
lol @ Gina :wink:
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I don't do anything, really.
Yell at people?
I don't know. When I'm irrrrrrrrrritated, though, I grind my teeth and my jaw sticks out. :X
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cuss at random people.
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I learned to substitute words the other day instead of saything the real harsh one's.
Like saying, "You Pants!" and stuff like that ;)
Manda
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I learned to substitute words the other day instead of saything the real harsh one's.
Like saying, "You Pants!" and stuff like that ;)
Manda
yea...but when i do it, it comes out "you fucker" instead of "you pants!"
:? .....
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yes, substitute fuckingshitdamncrap!!!!! to Pants.
:D
Manda
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I don't really do anything drastic. If i get mad at my parents I don't say anything, because I know it won't fix anything. If i'm mad at my friends, same thing goes. I usually just listen to "angry" music :-P write poems.....rant in my lj.....cry....whatever requires me to not talk. In the past I've said some very hurtful things to people when I was angry that I regreted saying, so I've tried to train myself not to talk when I'm really emotional. Sometimes it doesn't work, but usually it does.
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if i'm mad at my parents, i try and show it even though i know it doesn't help, which is stupid but i do it anyway. if i'm mad at my friends i avoid talking to them until things cool down and then things generally solve themselves.
but in all cases, i just run into my room, slam the door, fling myself onto my bed and either cry or put on a Vanessa or evanescence song. it usually helps.
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If I'm 'angry' or 'depressed' my family can usually tell because I play the piano non-stop for hours on end, if I'm really angry or depressed I go for a walk or sit in my room and cry and play my whole cd collection (that's lots!) by the end of that, usually I've calmed down and I talk to someone on online messenger or Michelle (my sister) about things
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hrm, i get annoyed, frustrated and irritated by stupidity... however i very rarely get 'angry' or 'upset'... I used to when i was younger but I think i have learned that it just isn't worth it. If someone does get me to the point where i am angry i am usually just quiet and think through everything because I don't want to say anything i may regret later or haven't thoroughly thought out.
I used to yell, slam doors, blare music and cuss/swear when i was younger, and it never accomplished anything. Once i realized this and instead tried discussing things or turning things around (on my parents) it improved the entire situation. Upon looking at it from a 3rd party view, it would seem that I was being manipulative... I think i was just playing the 'game' of growing up smarter than the 'rents ;)
-katia
edit: additionally, i hated letting what someone else did or say control how i felt... so i just wanted to ensure i was in control of my emotions at all time. secondly, people could possibly use what they learn or my anger against me and i never wanted that, so by being quiet and not showing any emotion... i was better protected =)
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I am angry too fast and too long lately
I hate everything, myself most
Everything annoys me, I have no patience, I am too lonely, too sad
I used to hurt myself, the pain on the outside is less worse than the pain on the inside
Guess I'm too much of a damn wuss now, bc I can't do it anymore
Instead I just listen to a lot of angry LOUD music, but it's not helping anymore
I'm thinking of taking some kind of drugs again, like I did when I was about 16, maybe that'll help a bit
I know that it only takes the worries away for a few hours, but that's better than nothing
I don't know how else to do it anymore
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katia was born a dictator.
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Si, i'm concerned. From what i know of you, you seem like a great individual so why do you have such pain? I'm glad you don't intentionally harm yourself any longer but why did you do it in the first place?
katia was born a dictator.
what the hell?! =)
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I get frustrated to the point where i either 1.start an argument with someone (have ya noticed!? :wink: ) or 2. cry. Jason made me so frustrated i started crying with one of his LJ entries about europe. lol- i am so sad!
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Si, i'm concerned. From what i know of you, you seem like a great individual so why do you have such pain? I'm glad you don't intentionally harm yourself any longer but why did you do it in the first place?
Yeah, i'm worried too. My dad has manic depression- i kinda know what its like. A lot of the time it seems like you're actually feeling what you are, but its just a chemical imbalance in the brain. Thats what a lot of people don't understand about mental illness- that its just the same as if you had flu, but in your brain. It just sounds like you need to get diagnosed and get some anti-depressants. Cos WE LOVE SI! And its not fair that you should suffer this kind of thing. read Nessa's article in Teen Vogue- hehe.
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Jason made me so frustrated i started crying with one of his LJ entries about europe
That makes me sad! Guessing it was a negative comment, why would anyone have something negative to say about Europe? Seriously!
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Si, we love you. You are a GREAT person, you help, you make our days!
If you feel like you need help please feel free to PM me.
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Jason made me so frustrated i started crying with one of his LJ entries about europe
That makes me sad! Guessing it was a negative comment, why would anyone have something negative to say about Europe? Seriously!
http://www.livejournal.com/users/pintoguinness/28733.html
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Si, we love you. You are a GREAT person, you help, you make our days!
If you feel like you need help please feel free to PM me.
ditto! I love ya Si! You know you got all us crazy Nessaholics to talk to :wink:
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Thanks
You're all very sweet
But don't worry about me
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Thanks
You're all very sweet
But don't worry about me
Ahem, its our duty to worry about you. Thats what friends do. So we need to get you to do sth about this my dwarling hollandish chum!
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Why would a Texan randomly be walking down the street? He had no business on THAT street, anyway . . .
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Why would a Texan randomly be walking down the street? He had no business on THAT street, anyway . . .
LMAO! Can you see why it made me angry? Like america is the knight on the white horse freeing countries from nasty dictators! lol, argh i can't even begin to express how angry that made me and nerea!
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Thanks
You're all very sweet
But don't worry about me
Ahem, its our duty to worry about you. Thats what friends do. So we need to get you to do sth about this my dwarling hollandish chum!
I didn't post it to get reactions like this, you know?
But thank you anyway, you're sweet
and Katia: like I said
It's bc the pain on the ouside is less worse than the pain on the inside
It's one or the other, you know?
Hmm
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And I know. For WHATEVER reason, the US feels like it should be our world's hero or whatever. It pisses me off! I knew so many people who would've been drafted if a draft was/is necessary. And that itself pisses me off. They have to go over and be heroes . . . Why? "I lost my arm in a War that was the dumbass twin of Vietnam. Yay!" Seriously . . . People are so stupid!
The point I'm trying to make is we had no business over "there". Especially no life-threatening business.
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Thanks
You're all very sweet
But don't worry about me
Ahem, its our duty to worry about you. Thats what friends do. So we need to get you to do sth about this my dwarling hollandish chum!
I didn't post it to get reactions like this, you know?
But thank you anyway, you're sweet
Yeah i know, you weren't attention seeking. Its just hard to see someone who brightens up the boards be so low. It doesn't have to be one or the other though. I watched my dad go through this.
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LOL! @ Kat
Si - I know the pain on the outside is worse than the pain on the inside, but that's only if you hold the pain in! Talk to somebody, hun. Rant and rave and complain and spill and cry and get mad and let everything out! It might just make you feel better...
I'm always here *hugs*
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Ok
thanks again, but how about y'all forget what I posted
I wasn't looking for reactions, I simply wanted to post my answer to this thread's question
: )
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*slides into thread..
thats it..
GROUP HUG. :D
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*slides in for group hugs* :D
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Okay, only if its with my bud Chloe then I'm all for it!
lol
*gives chloe and everyone else a huge bear hug*
Manda
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Si, i'm concerned. From what i know of you, you seem like a great individual so why do you have such pain? I'm glad you don't intentionally harm yourself any longer but why did you do it in the first place?
Yeah, i'm worried too. My dad has manic depression- i kinda know what its like. A lot of the time it seems like you're actually feeling what you are, but its just a chemical imbalance in the brain. Thats what a lot of people don't understand about mental illness- that its just the same as if you had flu, but in your brain. It just sounds like you need to get diagnosed and get some anti-depressants. Cos WE LOVE SI! And its not fair that you should suffer this kind of thing. read Nessa's article in Teen Vogue- hehe.
*rushes out to Holland and gives Si a huge hug* Aww Si darling I had no idea you were in all that pain :( You really should listen to Rosie, after all she is the psychology expert!! And you know that teen vogue article is very inspirational! We LOVE ya Si and we don't want to see you get into pain!! And that's why we got to help our fave NESSA Holland friend!!! If you ever need help we'll be here :heart:
Take care my dear!
xoxoxoxox
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*slides into thread..
thats it..
GROUP HUG. :D
We :heart: Fairy!!!!!! *joins in the group hug*
If we had a rugby ball would it be a scrum? =\