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Title: question for the boys.
Post by: feynessa19 on November 10, 2004, 09:19:23 pm
How long does it take you to call a girl that you like?

vanessa
Title: question for the boys.
Post by: Katia's Lover on November 10, 2004, 09:26:53 pm
Is she hot, or is she someone I like that I'm ashamed to introduce to my friends?   8O
Title: I don't know.
Post by: feynessa19 on November 10, 2004, 09:39:55 pm
I'm the girl but I guess if your friend gave you the thumbs up and the guy was like yes after hearing that you liked him.  Does that mean he'll call you if you gave him your number.  By the way not sure if I'm hot or not or if he would be ashamed to introduce me to anyone.
Title: question for the boys.
Post by: keith on November 10, 2004, 09:43:53 pm
Uh, it's the chick's responsibility to call the dude first.

Duh, it's like an unwritten rule or something :|
Title: question for the boys.
Post by: feynessa19 on November 10, 2004, 09:45:53 pm
I would have but I don't have his number.  I did that with my last boyfriend.
Title: question for the boys.
Post by: keith on November 10, 2004, 09:50:35 pm
If you don't have his phone number, go to his house. Then take a sack of dog poo and put it on the front doorstep and light in on fire. Then knock on the door and run like hell.

It may not win you any boyfriends, but it's funny to see his reaction. Will this help you accomplish anything? No, but do it anyway for shits and giggles.
Title: question for the boys.
Post by: feynessa19 on November 10, 2004, 09:52:30 pm
I would do that but I think he's in new york now.  And I'm in oregon.
Title: question for the boys.
Post by: keith on November 10, 2004, 09:58:28 pm
Damn.

Well, in that case, get on a plane to New York, go there and find his house. Then break in and rob his ass blind. If you're not up for a felony that night, then sneak into his bedroom and wake him up. Then ask him for his phone number. It's that simple. He may give it to you, he may call the police, hell, he may even bitch slap your ass, but at least he'll know how serious you were about wanting to get to know him.

During the 10-12 years you serve in prison for breaking and entering, he might come visit you.
Title: question for the boys.
Post by: Will on November 10, 2004, 10:02:49 pm
I'd call the day or two after I got her number, unless I'm really busy.
Title: question for the boys.
Post by: feynessa19 on November 10, 2004, 10:04:39 pm
ok any serious answers now. seriously?
Title: question for the boys.
Post by: keith on November 10, 2004, 10:07:44 pm
Quote from: "feynessa19"
ok any serious answers now. seriously?


Dude, I'm totally being serious. But, hey whatever.

Now if you'll excuse me, I'm going to draw boobs on my little sister's Etch-a-Sketch.
Title: question for the boys.
Post by: tylor2000 on November 10, 2004, 10:28:02 pm
I'd wait at least one full day.  2 or 3 days is pretty much the standard for me.  That way I don't feel like I'm stalking the chick.  Then every other day unless the relationship really gets rolling.   About a week after that call you know if the woman is interested enough in you.  I don't usaully call but every other day unless there is a real need for it during a relationship.  It depends on the person and the situation.  When you start spending ALOT of time together (like too much time) for several months then people sometimes move in together.  And so on.........

I go by the three day rule.  I hope that helps.

tylor
Title: question for the boys.
Post by: feynessa19 on November 10, 2004, 10:51:16 pm
so if it's been like almost a week then I shouldn't be holding my breath anymore?
Title: question for the boys.
Post by: tylor2000 on November 10, 2004, 11:08:50 pm
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so if it's been like almost a week then I shouldn't be holding my breath anymore?


If he is in another state getting set up with his life and very busy it might take alot longer, but I'd say yeah.  I'd start not holding my breath on the fourth day.  But every guy is different.  The longest most guys take are the ones which go by the three day rule(like me.)  Some people are one week people or an open weekend.  But those are rare.  I like the three day rule because it ends up being a more relaxed convo and most women who are worth it, in my experience, aren't going to put you out for it.  I suggest talking to women about it instead of guys because I'm sure alot of us don't know how to make your side of the call.  I'd know after about three days most women are just not interested if they get my number out of the white pages and don't call.

tylor
Title: question for the boys.
Post by: Grakthis on November 11, 2004, 05:18:15 am
Quote from: "feynessa19"
ok any serious answers now. seriously?


If you're 21 years old and you're asking this question then he's not going to call you cause YOU'RE COMPLETELY CLUELESS.
Title: question for the boys.
Post by: Katia's Lover on November 11, 2004, 07:15:16 am
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I would do that but I think he's in new york now.  And I'm in oregon.


If you're 21, asking this type of question on a message board, and he lives THREE FUCKING THOUSAND MILES AWAY, you're criminally insane.  He probably knows this, and won't call.  Sorry.

EDIT:  Wow, me and Andrew just said like much of the same thing.
Title: question for the boys.
Post by: Grakthis on November 11, 2004, 07:37:03 am
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I would do that but I think he's in new york now.  And I'm in oregon.


If you're 21, asking this type of question on a message board, and he lives THREE FUCKING THOUSAND MILES AWAY, you're criminally insane.  He probably knows this, and won't call.  Sorry.

EDIT:  Wow, me and Andrew just said like much of the same thing.


Except you're more of a prick than I am :)
Title: question for the boys.
Post by: Wagella on November 11, 2004, 07:51:26 am
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Except you're more of a prick than I am :)


Surely that isn't true!! my entire belief structure is based on the fact that you are the biggest prick of all? How can you shatter my religion with one simple statement?

Woe, the end of times doth draw near!! Repent sinners, and since the world is ending, what better time for all you hot girls to fuck me??
Title: question for the boys.
Post by: Katia's Lover on November 11, 2004, 07:56:32 am
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Quote from: "feynessa19"
I would do that but I think he's in new york now.  And I'm in oregon.


If you're 21, asking this type of question on a message board, and he lives THREE FUCKING THOUSAND MILES AWAY, you're criminally insane.  He probably knows this, and won't call.  Sorry.

EDIT:  Wow, me and Andrew just said like much of the same thing.


Except you're more of a prick than I am :)


As much as I might try Andy, you will always be the supreme prick.  I will continue on my quest to become a larger prick, but I doubt that this will ever occur.
Title: question for the boys.
Post by: LimeTwister on November 11, 2004, 08:01:36 am
:microwave:
Title: question for the boys.
Post by: Grakthis on November 11, 2004, 08:35:54 am
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Quote from: "Grakthis"
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Quote from: "feynessa19"
I would do that but I think he's in new york now.  And I'm in oregon.


If you're 21, asking this type of question on a message board, and he lives THREE FUCKING THOUSAND MILES AWAY, you're criminally insane.  He probably knows this, and won't call.  Sorry.

EDIT:  Wow, me and Andrew just said like much of the same thing.


Except you're more of a prick than I am :)


As much as I might try Andy, you will always be the supreme prick.  I will continue on my quest to become a larger prick, but I doubt that this will ever occur.


Yeah, but I didn't call her criminally insane .... I just said she was clueluess :)
Title: question for the boys.
Post by: feynessa19 on November 13, 2004, 01:00:14 am
yeah I must be insane taking advice from losers over the internet who like to argue with eachother.  Thanks but no thanks for the advice.  By the way he did up calling me and is very much interested.
Title: question for the boys.
Post by: kaysha on November 13, 2004, 01:25:34 am
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yeah I must be insane taking advice from losers over the internet who like to argue with eachother.  Thanks but no thanks for the advice.  By the way he did up calling me and is very much interested.
LOL

they *do* like to argue with each other.... heheheheheh

with relocating that was probably his supreme focus... did he just need to get settled before calling?
Title: question for the boys.
Post by: tylor2000 on November 13, 2004, 03:05:32 am
I hope my comment helped.  Just out of curiousity, how long did it take him to call?

tylor
Title: question for the boys.
Post by: Grakthis on November 13, 2004, 07:00:35 am
Quote from: "feynessa19"
yeah I must be insane taking advice from losers over the internet who like to argue with eachother.  Thanks but no thanks for the advice.  By the way he did up calling me and is very much interested.


Right.  He called you.  He's wonderful.  Everyone is happy.

I am a beautifl woman.  My house is worth one MILLION dollars :dr evil:.  My dog can carry on full conversations.  Todd is witty and insightful.

And everything in this post is completely true.
and today is opposite day
Let me know when you get that criminally insane thing worked out.