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Re: Ok...
« Reply #15 on: October 30, 2003, 11:31:15 am »
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You're 16 years old.  It's time to learn how to ask someone out.  


NO, NO ITS NOT! *hides*

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If you like the guy then sit him down and talk to him! Or else just try and plant one on him and see if he squirms away.  But dont play word games with him.  That's just silly.  You're 16! Not 12! Take a risk!
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Its not that easy, boys play games too. They really really play games (maybe i'm choosing the wrong blokes!?) and people are always going to be scared of rejection. Even if you are the most confident person in the world its not that easy to just 'plant one on' someone.

Once again *sigh* reaching my conclusion: Boys suck!
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« Reply #16 on: October 30, 2003, 11:49:55 am »
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Also, one thing ive learned, if you try and balance two guys at once you're not gonna get either of them. Pick 1 boy and focus on him.  Don't try and keep a backup plan around.  ---Andrew



Hahahaha.  I was gonna say, "AMEN, brother!" but then I was like, "Hmmm, wait a second!"  So, Andrew, the trying to date two guys at once never worked out?  What a shame.  Don't worry, the right boy will come along and you won't need to do that anymore... :razz:
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« Reply #17 on: October 30, 2003, 11:58:06 am »
Where to go on a first date???

Your bedroom.
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« Reply #18 on: October 30, 2003, 12:00:26 pm »
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Where to go on a first date???

Your bedroom.


Oh, PUHLEASE!!!

You ask for serious answers on your threads but can't make a single post without some sort of innuendo? Ahh it really is some sort of sick skill.
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Re: Ok...
« Reply #19 on: October 30, 2003, 12:01:47 pm »
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You're 16 years old.  It's time to learn how to ask someone out.  


NO, NO ITS NOT! *hides*


I'm 19...  :oops:

Quote from: "rosieposy87"
Quote from: "Grakthis"

If you like the guy then sit him down and talk to him! Or else just try and plant one on him and see if he squirms away.  But dont play word games with him.  That's just silly.  You're 16! Not 12! Take a risk!
---Andrew


Its not that easy, boys play games too. They really really play games (maybe i'm choosing the wrong blokes!?) and people are always going to be scared of rejection. Even if you are the most confident person in the world its not that easy to just 'plant one on' someone.

Once again *sigh* reaching my conclusion: Boys suck!


Planting one on a boy is NOT easy!! I don't think I'd ever dare to just randomly kiss a guy I like unless I was already going out with him, cos even if I knew he wouldn't just look away if I tried to kiss him, I just don't have the guts  :?

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Also, one thing ive learned, if you try and balance two guys at once you're not gonna get either of them. Pick 1 boy and focus on him. Don't try and keep a backup plan around. It never works out cause he ends up feeling like your second choice and people hate that.


Couldn't agree more. Never works if you're trying to decide between two. Never.

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Re: Where is a good place to go for a first sort of date?
« Reply #20 on: October 30, 2003, 12:01:54 pm »
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Well, my friend is going to ask my crush (everyone says he likes me and I've caught him staring at me a few times) to go with me, her and another one of our friends and she wants me to tell her where I want to go but I have no idea where to go!! Can you help me figure out a good place to go on a first sort of date? lol  :lol:  :oops:  :wink:




First of all if you cant ask the guy out yourself..how do you expect or think it will be to "actually" be around him....if i learned anything never get someone else to do the asking because the guy will think ya chicken..you have to be confient about things....if he says no..then move on and keep smiling, if he says yea..then thats amazing! I guess i'm different...when it comes to most people....
hmm...i wouldnt actually call this a
cool thing though..if other people is involved..i could never do that..i want to be alone with my guy..its the best way t get to know each other better..etc.

Also....its not really about the place...that isnt really important here..the important thing is to make sure the person you are with is enjoying themselves and you are being comfortable...there is no perfect date..there is no perfect place.. dont get me wrong...i.love dancing, taking long walks,the ocean, the moonlight,staring at the stars& the beach of course =) .but most importantly the only thing is being with that person would make things seem great and nothing else would seem to matter then to feel the love, happiness ,laughter, wonder and anything else around us quite frankly..lol
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« Reply #21 on: October 30, 2003, 01:46:01 pm »
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Where to go on a first date???

Your bedroom.


Oh, PUHLEASE!!!

You ask for serious answers on your threads but can't make a single post without some sort of innuendo?


Yes.

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Ahh it really is some sort of sick skill.


Yes, it really is.

Now get on your knees (hey look!  Another innuendo!) and bow to the master.  

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« Reply #22 on: October 30, 2003, 09:09:54 pm »
i'm shy too... lol, so i know how it is!
i have never been the first one to ask a guy out, but when i find out he likes me, then i call him and invite him places as well.
i go to an all girl school... so that makes me even more shy when it comes to asking guys out, lol.  not as much practice. i always have to meet guys through parties or friends.
and i'm especially nervous about dating guys now, cause i think i broke the last guys heart when thats what i was trying so hard not to do.

so yeah... i'm not having luck with it, lol. i'm the shyest person when it comes to guys!
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« Reply #23 on: November 02, 2003, 07:44:56 am »
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Hahahaha.  I was gonna say, "AMEN, brother!" but then I was like, "Hmmm, wait a second!"  So, Andrew, the trying to date two guys at once never worked out?  What a shame.  Don't worry, the right boy will come along and you won't need to do that anymore... :razz:


 :x

I meant that in my experience with women that doesn't work.......  And also that women I know ....who have tried to juggle 2 guys at...

you know what.  Bite me.  :wink:
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« Reply #24 on: November 02, 2003, 09:52:47 am »
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you know what.  Bite me.  :wink:


*screams* He has the skill too!! NOOOOO, where do you learn this? Some kinda skanky innuendo school!?
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« Reply #25 on: November 02, 2003, 10:46:52 am »
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you know what.  Bite me.  :wink:


*screams* He has the skill too!! NOOOOO, where do you learn this? Some kinda skanky innuendo school!?


Where do we learn this?

We refer to it as "America"
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« Reply #26 on: November 02, 2003, 01:11:05 pm »
haha so true!

I'm the same as holly to the detail....I dont think for girls you have to be able to ask a guy out at 16 or even ever (if you can pull that off, my props), so I'm not too worried.

Instead of asking out just be a sexy thang ;)
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« Reply #27 on: November 02, 2003, 01:16:00 pm »
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you know what.  Bite me.  :wink:


*screams* He has the skill too!! NOOOOO, where do you learn this? Some kinda skanky innuendo school!?


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