You can stay out of the public eye and still be extremely popular. But you have to achieve a certain level of stardom, which Vanessa hasn't achieved yet. Like, for example, Leonardo DiCaprio, he rarely gives interviews and stops at red carpets to sign for autographs or what not, he's hard to catch and come by, and that just drives people even crazier about him, paparazzi included. It's like playing hard to get. *Shrugs*