I actually have discovered that my sister and I aren't very close either, we live in the same house, but I just don't feel a closeness to her, we are such opposites, fire and water. Its sad, but its life, I plan in 2 years to move to New York, which is accross the country, I will be so far from everyone, but its what I feel I need to do, even though it'll make me so separated from my family.