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would you have sex before marriage? do you think its ok?

yes
44 (80%)
no
11 (20%)

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« on: October 20, 2007, 07:03:55 pm »
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« Reply #1 on: October 20, 2007, 07:45:18 pm »
I believe in waiting for love.
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« Reply #2 on: October 20, 2007, 07:54:57 pm »
yeah but if you love each other and know youre going to spend the rest of your life with the person, would you do it if you had a choice?

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« Reply #3 on: October 20, 2007, 07:58:20 pm »
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yeah but if you love each other and know youre going to spend the rest of your life with the person, would you do it if you had a choice?

No, I'm saying that I think sex before marriage is okay if it's an expression of love. I could care less if it's before, during, or after marriage.

Or at least the first time should be out of love. ;)
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« Reply #4 on: October 20, 2007, 08:01:45 pm »
i agree, you are right

i only ask because i am a christian and "christians arent suppose to have sex before marriage". you know. But i disagree on that.

thank you :wink:

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« Reply #5 on: October 20, 2007, 08:38:24 pm »
I think it would be stupid to marry someone you haven't had sex with.

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« Reply #6 on: October 20, 2007, 11:13:29 pm »
sex before marraige is wrong. i'm sorry.

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« Reply #7 on: October 20, 2007, 11:38:43 pm »
yeah but i'm getting married, so it doesnt matter...lol

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« Reply #8 on: October 20, 2007, 11:56:33 pm »
maybe not, and congratulations!

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« Reply #9 on: October 21, 2007, 12:06:49 am »
Oh God, a thread only jennifer would create.  Get married already.  Then we won't have 123 virgin threads everywhere on the internet.  Sheesh

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« Reply #10 on: October 21, 2007, 12:07:01 am »
thanks


why do you think its wrong though?

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« Reply #11 on: October 21, 2007, 12:13:52 am »
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Oh God, a thread only jennifer would create.  Get married already.  Then we won't have 123 virgin threads everywhere on the internet.  Sheesh




pfft grumpy old man..you are so depressing

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« Reply #12 on: October 21, 2007, 01:07:43 am »
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Oh God, a thread only jennifer would create.  Get married already.  Then we won't have 123 virgin threads everywhere on the internet.  Sheesh




pfft grumpy old man..you are so depressing


LOL, I'm just saying jen.  You are the only person I know that posts "Are you a virgin?" , "Do you think it is wrong to..." at regular intervals.  

When is the date?  Congrats by the way.

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« Reply #13 on: October 21, 2007, 08:44:45 am »
As long as its used to express love at least on the first occasion with a partner I see no problem, but sleeping around surely takes the special~ness of it.

I personally don't see how people go out and just want to have sex with a random stranger, I have nothing against people doing it but its like why bother, a little bit of pleasure whilst running a massive risk.

Sex is an act of love and should only be performed with the one you love whether you be married or not you need to be in love, or it could be your 'first......mistake'
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« Reply #14 on: October 21, 2007, 08:49:30 am »
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sex before marraige is wrong. i'm sorry.


mmhmm I think it is as well now that I think of it. I mean why would you want to do that with just someone you "love" I mean I would just wait until marriage because you now you are going to say with them (unless you follow the sick trend of divroce these days) than you know you can have that special first time with the person you love. Not someon you think you love whom you brak up with weeks later...

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