You girls drive me NUTS!
I dont understand why girls are so afraid of rejection? Girls don't get rejected very often!! Guys dont know how to say no! We have no practice at it!
In my experience, if a girl approaches a guy, shes got like a 90% shot of getting him to take her out, even if shes approaching a guy out of her league. It's just a fact of the dynamic. Guys usually have to work so hard to get a date, we LOVE when we get one without the effort.
Girls, its easy to let any half way experienced guy know you like him. There are about a dozen different signals we look for from a girl to know if shes interested.
If she laughs at ALL our jokes, even the un funny ones. If she sympathizes with everything we tell them. If she actually takes a minute to encourage US to talk (instead of just blabbing away the whole time). If she leans in when shes listening. If she makes eye contact. If she seems nervous. The smile is a BIG one. Guys always look to see if the girl is smiling.
Also, another good sign guys look for is if she shows an interest in the things we do. girls do this to give us an opening to invite them places. For example, if I say how much I love going to the track, and she declares "Ohhh! I love horses!" then thats my opening to say "well, we should go for the spring meets this weekend!".
So just try to give him those kinds signals. And if hes interested in you, he will take the bait and if hes not then he can casually ignore them and no one gets embarrased.
Unless you think hes too naive to pick up the signals. Then you should just jump him and see how he responds. :wink:
---Andrew
