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« on: July 26, 2004, 12:06:04 am »
Ok... my best friend broke up with her boyfriend of 26 months in April. She was and is totally in love with him, and refuses to get over him, even though he's with a new girl now and told her he doesnt love her at all. They still hang out, which i'm totally against, because everytime after she sees him she cries forever. I'm trying to get her to understand she needs to forget him and not see him anymore. She said she cant, which i understand, but she needs to break contact with him so she can heal.
I want to make a CD for her full of break-up songs, about how now the person is better off without the lover and stronger. Definitely no songs about crying over someone.

So far I have these songs:
Stronger- Britney Spears
Leave- JoJo
Favorite Mistake- Sheryl Crow
Better Off- Ashlee Simpson
Surrender- Ashlee Simpson
He Wasn't- Avril Lavigne
Out of My Heart- BBmak
Are You Happy Now?- Michelle Branch (thanks Tia)
Fighter- Christina Aguilera (thanks Tia)
Afterglow- Vanessa Carlton Thanks Jessica!
Walk Away- Christina Agiler (thanks VaderDawsn)
Walk On- U2
"i'm willing to do anything
to calm the storm in my heart
i've never been the praying kind
but lately i've been down upon my knees
not looking for a miracle
just a reason to believe"

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« Reply #1 on: July 26, 2004, 06:14:19 am »
That's so sweet of you!
Here are some ideas:

Christina Aguilera - Fighter
Michelle Branch - Are You Happy Now?

And maybe you should stick Red Ditty on the end, just to make her smile :D

That's all I can think of right now...
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« Reply #2 on: July 26, 2004, 10:18:37 am »
Ashlee Simpson's Better off says it all.

I love that song

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« Reply #3 on: July 26, 2004, 10:28:57 am »
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That's so sweet of you!
Here are some ideas:

Christina Aguilera - Fighter
Michelle Branch - Are You Happy Now?

And maybe you should stick Red Ditty on the end, just to make her smile :D

That's all I can think of right now...


Thanks Tia! those songs are good! I don't know about sticking Vanessa on there though. "Pretty Baby" was their song together.
"i'm willing to do anything
to calm the storm in my heart
i've never been the praying kind
but lately i've been down upon my knees
not looking for a miracle
just a reason to believe"

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« Reply #4 on: July 26, 2004, 12:02:40 pm »
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That's so sweet of you!
Here are some ideas:

Christina Aguilera - Fighter
Michelle Branch - Are You Happy Now?

And maybe you should stick Red Ditty on the end, just to make her smile :D

That's all I can think of right now...


Thanks Tia! those songs are good! I don't know about sticking Vanessa on there though. "Pretty Baby" was their song together.


You're welcome! Red Ditty shows a totally different side of VC, so you might be okay, but I don't know... Your call! :)
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« Reply #5 on: July 26, 2004, 12:06:13 pm »
SWINDLER!!! i recently broke up with someone and that was a good song...

Things are going crazy and I'm not sure who to blame...
November 9th 2004...H a r m o n i u m!!!
Spare me just three last words, I love you is all she heard...

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« Reply #6 on: July 26, 2004, 12:07:24 pm »
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SWINDLER!!! i recently broke up with someone and that was a good song...


I thought about that...but it's not so much an 'I'm better of without him' song as an 'I'm going to wallow in my self pity/anger' song. Did that make any sense? Never mind :roll:
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« Reply #7 on: July 26, 2004, 12:10:50 pm »
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I thought about that...but it's not so much an 'I'm better of without him' song as an 'I'm going to wallow in my self pity/anger' song. Did that make any sense? Never mind :roll:


That makes sense.... I've been trying to think of songs to add, too...but all the songs I can think of are wallowing songs and not better off songs, including that one. LOL.
For all you broken hearted lovers lost, go find another one. 'Cause you know time won't wait and you'll be late, white rabbits on the run...

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« Reply #8 on: July 26, 2004, 12:15:41 pm »
Finally, someone on my train of thought :)
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« Reply #9 on: July 26, 2004, 12:17:05 pm »
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Finally, someone on my train of thought :)

Uh Oh. There's two of them!

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« Reply #10 on: July 26, 2004, 12:17:48 pm »
LOL! Y'all better watch out!
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« Reply #11 on: July 26, 2004, 12:18:17 pm »
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I thought about that...but it's not so much an 'I'm better of without him' song as an 'I'm going to wallow in my self pity/anger' song. Did that make any sense? Never mind :roll:


That makes sense.... I've been trying to think of songs to add, too...but all the songs I can think of are wallowing songs and not better off songs, including that one. LOL.


i think it's a mix of both. because there is part where she goes:

And now I'll make my way
Through another day
'cause I know better now
You'll drop another line
On someone else's time
But in me you still resound

but it's that last line that's kind of not the "i'm getting over you" theme.

what about Afterglow? not really a break up song, but an uplifter none the less :razz:

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« Reply #12 on: July 26, 2004, 12:20:50 pm »
I saw that small bit, but I thought it didn't really compensate for all the wallowing - that's why I rejected it.

Afterglow is a good idea!
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« Reply #13 on: July 26, 2004, 12:26:40 pm »
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I saw that small bit, but I thought it didn't really compensate for all the wallowing - that's why I rejected it.

Afterglow is a good idea!


yeah - i mean, it's one line but the rest of it is pretty much saying "i may be getting over you but i think drowning myself in ice cream and crying is a better option" - which reminds me - i love ice cream. :razz:

and i heart afterglow. 'tis my favorite VC song :-)

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« Reply #14 on: July 26, 2004, 12:27:41 pm »
I had ice cream for breakfast today o.O

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