She's not the best to her fans, but she's definitely not bad to us either. There are some artists/celebrities who are very into communication with their fans and keeping people updated. Jason Mraz keeps one of the coolest journals I've seen from an artist and talks to his fans like peers, but some people aren't like that... don't like the internet or whatever, or just don't really care to be so interactive, they think of it as more a career and probably just want their privacy when they get the opportunities...
That being sad, I think part of the reason she hasn't been updating the 'fans' as much is because her career isn't going that well right now and she might not think she has much of a fanbase left, it may make her feel depressed to think of it... not trying to defend her, but she has said she suffers from depression sometimes so who knows how she feels.
And her apt is nice, but not cozy enough for my taste if I'm being honest!