i dunno man...
i feel totally gay whenever i listen to "white houses"
Why? I always feel like a mature guy listening to a story about some girl losing her virginity. Not all male to female relationships have to do with the validation of your sexuality. For instance, if you ever had a sister or a daughter, listening to such a story from her wouldn't make you gay. It might make you uncomfortable in those specific cases. It would be a more serious or mature conversation and perspective. Or if you were listening to some lady telling a group a story and opening up, where she is married or is going out with your best friend. In such cases it wouldn't make you gay and it would be silly to feel that way. It might not be your topic of choice, but if you are a certain type of person who likes interesting involved conversation you might be able to appreciate it for what it is on a mature level.
It really has nothing to do with the
validation of anyone's sexuality. It's just that some people are more inclined to prefer certain types of music as opposed to others. And in Psychological research, most of the lines are drawn between the masculine and feminine, and are compared against one another, gender lines are the basis for a lot of studies.
I'm not trying to make Vanessa a feminine/gay issue, because guess what Tylor, it's not an issue. People listening to Vanessa - regardless as to their gender or sexuality, is awesome, it's just an observation.
