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I need advice with my friends.....
« on: May 30, 2003, 05:52:39 pm »
Ok so I'm having troubles. I was wondering if someone could give me some insite as to what to do.

I have this one friend who lies alot. It's like no matter how much our group talks about how she lies they all like OHHH Anna! And they act like nothing was ever wrong. And then the other day my friends dad got sick and then these 3 girls whom Anna said she didn't like all go to Anna and say we have a secret plan and they are saying it in front on me,renee,and kelsey like we are crap and we shouldn't know. Yet, Anna went along with it even though she said those people were fake and she didn't like them.

Then I have this other friend who is my best friend. It seems like she has changed ever since she got her first REAL boyfriend. Which is totally cool, she deserves the best and I'm happy she is happy. I just wish she would reconsider what she is going to do with him. Like she used to always be like No sex until you are old enough to everyone. She was a good person who didn't do bad things IE hand jobs,blow jobs, ect. Now she wants to go over to his house to do that kind of stuff with her new boyfriend which bothers me.I have no clue how to stop her from making a bad desision.
Another thing about this one is lately she has been totally rude. Like, I'll be like Ohh can you help me? And she'll be like 1 minute in english class and then she would start talking to this other girl who I have talked to and she said she didn't even like her. She said that she makes fun of her to her face and she doesn't get the picture and laughs. Yet my best friend ignores me to talk to these other girls who are mean to her. I can't tell her that they don't like her beacuse she told me not to tell her if anyone is talking about her but it's hard because she is like one of those girls at school who has a big mouth and no one really likes and she doesn't get the picture. I don't know what to do. It's like she has totally changed and needs a reality slap. I don't know how to tell her she has changed and that no one really likes her!

What should I do?
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Re: I need advice with my friends.....
« Reply #1 on: May 30, 2003, 06:01:05 pm »
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What should I do?


make a shorter post, so I know what you are talking about...

*didn't read the post*

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Re: I need advice with my friends.....
« Reply #2 on: May 30, 2003, 06:03:13 pm »
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make a shorter post, so I know what you are talking about...
*didn't read the post*

BHAHA Prime example of A.D.D. at it's finest!

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Re: I need advice with my friends.....
« Reply #3 on: May 30, 2003, 06:05:35 pm »
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Quote from: "LimeTwister"
make a shorter post, so I know what you are talking about...
*didn't read the post*

BHAHA Prime example of A.D.D. at it's finest!


ya know, I would be offended, but NESSA has some what A.D.D....so it is fine with me I have a slight attention disorder.

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I need advice with my friends.....
« Reply #4 on: May 30, 2003, 06:20:21 pm »
It's kinda sad when I ask for help being totally honest I get made fun of. I poured my heart out there and now I know that I can't do that kind of stuff here because people will just continue to be rude such as the great example in this thread! Thanks!
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I need advice with my friends.....
« Reply #5 on: May 30, 2003, 06:22:52 pm »
oh i wasn't trying to be rude...

my advice find a friend that is interested in you...I alway love to hear what people have to say...Its like everyone tells me their problems...which can be good and bad....