I need advice on something that is really annoying my life

[x Jennifer x]

well, it all started when i moved away from my home , since i was 18 i wnted to be on my own, try to be a mature young lady , try to be independent, and show my parents that i don't really need them...
blah blah blah...
anyway to get the point, i told either of the two that if there is a time that i need something from them, i will let them know...but other then that not to spoil me so much..because trust e all they ever did was spoil me.. and i don't know, but i'm tired of feeling like shit....they keep sending me erm..checks in the mail which kinda annoys me because its get me thinking that they dont belive in me..like i need them or something...and well i have everything i culd possibly need for the time being...so i called my mom a few weeks ago and told her to stop sending them and she's got all pissed and started bitching at me which makes now feel bad because i hate fighting with my paents over stupid things...really
but somehow she still has issues of wanting to take care of me...she sent me a check worth of  $1,700 in the mail today! gosh damn, and was like she doesnt get a clue of what i told her..i mean i dont mind taking the money..sheesh who wouldnt take it? BUT the point is it makes me feel like a nobody..and i dont want her supporting me like some kid and with all do respect i want er to keep the money because i know she needs it considering the fact my brother is atending college and stuff etc.
and i dunno what to do anymore ..they wont listen to me...:cry:

do you think i should leave it alone , change my mailing addresses,or do you really want me to shut the fuck up now because honestly i don't think you give a shit what i just typed?.. 8O


well whatever..if you have some kind of piece of advice..post it
if not, i respect that, i mean you don't really have to give a shit  :mrgreen:

[PIBby]

Just leave it alone. They're sending you money, for Chrissake! Don't think of it as them feeling sorry for you, just think of it as your Mom caring for you.

[x Jennifer x]

..thanks CeCe...you always have something nice to say..i appreciate that SO very much!


Next?

[jessica73]

are you turning down money?
geez, well feel free to send it to me!
i enjoy having my parents spoil me  

[Blake]

Well...I would like it if my parents spoiled me....But I have a really hard time with my parents....Just take the money and be thankful...Thats all I would do...

[x Jennifer x]

um thanks you guys..it means a lot to me , and i can see where you are all coming from, but um..it still makes me feel kinda uncomfortable.. i'm going to take a few bucks out and send the rest  back.......


Or do some worthy for once and pay for daniel's lp tickets..lol

[tylor2000]

Use it to invest in yourself, but spend it wisely.  Your brother is investing in himself(via your parents,) and you should too.  If you want to be a model or actress, then use the money to that end, especially if you don't really need it.  But use your head.  Don't be scammed.

Either that or put a down payment down on a porche for yourself or your dad and tell them what you are doing with the cash, if you know what I mean.  That is if you never want cash again :wink:

tylor

[x Jennifer x]

Use it to invest in yourself, but spend it wisely.  Your brother is investing in himself(via your parents,) and you should too.  If you want to be a model or actress, then use the money to that end, especially if you don't really need it.  But use your head.  Don't be scammed.

Either that or put a down payment down on a porche for yourself or your dad and tell them what you are doing with the cash, if you know what I mean.  That is if you never want cash again :wink:

tylor

True! geez you guys have lots of ideas..i know what you are sayin..that way if i do some worthy of it..they will belive in me!!!! and i will feel much better..wow thanks..

[rroo]

I'd suggest to send everything back. If you keep some they'll still think you need at least some cash and they probably won't stop sending it. I'd also include a letter in which you tell them you'd like to a "independent young lady" and that it also means being independent from them...

[x Jennifer x]

now i'm confused again =\

ok ok! i'll think of something..thanks for the advice everyone!
i really appreciate it..and i'll let you know what i've done with it.. :!:

[tylor2000]

Yeah, VC's parents were helping her.  Look what you can do with help?  Though her parents were pushing her through the door and stuff like that.

tylor

[Logikal X]

invest it for a few years, then give your parents more back...or just give them what they gave you and keep what you "earned".

[tylor2000]

I'd suggest to send everything back. If you keep some they'll still think you need at least some cash and they probably won't stop sending it. I'd also include a letter in which you tell them you'd like to a "independent young lady" and that it also means being independent from them...

Yeah I was thinking that too......but I figured if she wants to get somewhere then she might actaully be able to use it for some good.  I don't know....

Good luck Jennifer.

tylor

[tylor2000]

darn it, double post.....I thought it didn't post....so I sent it......please erase one....thanks....

tylor

[VanessaLover03]

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