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How fast is too fast to get married?

1 month
11 (45.8%)
3 months
1 (4.2%)
6 months
2 (8.3%)
9 months
5 (20.8%)
1 year
5 (20.8%)

Total Members Voted: 23

Voting closed: December 29, 2003, 07:32:57 pm

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« Reply #15 on: January 08, 2004, 08:50:37 am »
Quote from: "Tia"
Depends on the people... (etc.)


I feel the same way on that one, but if I were to get married I would have to be in a relationship for about 2-3 years.

one year just doesn't seem long enough to really get to know that person, I think if you really really really love the person then it might be okay.

It does depend on the people/person.

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« Reply #16 on: January 08, 2004, 11:39:44 am »
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Quote from: "Tia"
Depends on the people... (etc.)


I feel the same way on that one, but if I were to get married I would have to be in a relationship for about 2-3 years.

one year just doesn't seem long enough to really get to know that person, I think if you really really really love the person then it might be okay.


Yeah...depends on the person you're with...
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« Reply #17 on: January 08, 2004, 05:00:49 pm »
yeppity yep!

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« Reply #18 on: January 10, 2004, 02:51:07 am »
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:razz: put a little love in your heart.


LMAO! :razz:
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« Reply #19 on: May 09, 2004, 07:30:23 pm »
lol@tia

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« Reply #20 on: May 09, 2004, 08:38:55 pm »
I enjoy the ever increasing divorce rates in America.
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« Reply #21 on: May 11, 2004, 12:12:02 am »
I voted for 9 months because I think you should at least date for a year at the minimum.

I don't really see any good reason to get married aside from health insurance or financial benefits because it seems that most relationships are ruined by marriage. Perhaps that's because people go into marriage with the wrong idea of what marriage is or just don't take it seriously enough.

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« Reply #22 on: May 11, 2004, 12:56:47 am »
Well, I don't know, I think I'm with everyone who say's it depends on the person because my Dad proposed to my Mum the day after her MET her and they got married 9 months later and have been married for 33 years this October so...yeah.  :razz:

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