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« on: June 10, 2004, 10:07:49 pm »
what are the biggest turn ons, or turn offs that a guy or girl can do?

for me... biggest turn ons are when a guy cooks for you, brings flowers, remembers something you randomly said in a conversation about something you want to do and turns it into something special, makes you laugh, holds you close when you dance, confides in you... etc!

turn offs, when a guy is cocky, backs out of something last minute, doesnt call when he says he will and doesnt give a good reason why, is too pushy and moves too fast, does drugs, or drinks too much. [/b]
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« Reply #1 on: June 10, 2004, 10:18:40 pm »
Turn offs

1. Heavy cigarette smoker
2. Bitchy
3. Whines
4. Stuck Up
5. Screwed Everyone on the Cross Country Team (SR  :twisted: )

I think that's fair...

Turns ons
1. "Nice Rack" as my shirt says..haha
2. Friendly
3. Likes to Laugh
4. Doesn't think the world revolves around her
5. Plays Sports

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« Reply #2 on: June 11, 2004, 04:44:22 am »
Turn Ons
1. Plays Baseball/Softball
2. Awesome eyes
3. Good sense of humor
4. Plays an instrument
5. Knows the literary arts :D

Turn Offs
1. Bad style
2. Bad hair
3. Anti-sports/Republicans/preps/people with money (you know the type)
4. Is fond of the Confederacy (big surprise, there are many of them here)
5. Complains/Whines constantly
6. Big liberal without reason
7. Doesn't spend money freely

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« Reply #3 on: June 18, 2004, 02:46:54 pm »
Turn ons

good sense of humor

nice eyes

smells good

parties

Turn offs

bad sense of humor

bad listeners

bad smell

boring
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« Reply #4 on: June 18, 2004, 04:24:53 pm »
Turn On's:
1. Blue Eyes
2. Says Sweet Things
3. Makes Me Laugh
4. Talkative
5. Likes Lacrosse
6. Social
7. Likes Vanessa Carlton
8. Into Horror Movies
9. Not afraid to be romantic ;)

Turn Off's:
1. dirty/greasy hair
2. Smells
3. Listens to Punk/Goth/Skate/Emo/Metal/Hardcore Bands (?)
4. Rude
5. Conceited/Arrogant
6. Doesn't have a sense of humor
7. doesn't make eye contact
8. too quiet/overly talkative


all that i can think of for now

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« Reply #5 on: June 18, 2004, 06:54:45 pm »
Quote from: "Manda"
Turn Off's:
1. dirty/greasy hair
2. Smells
3. Listens to Punk/Goth/Skate/Emo/Metal/Hardcore Bands (?)
4. Rude
5. Conceited/Arrogant
6. Doesn't have a sense of humor
7. doesn't make eye contact
8. too quiet/overly talkative


Just b/c a person listens to a certain type of music doesn't mean their going to dress/act in that same mannor.  :roll:

Why I ever bypass the thing to read some of your posts is unknown and plain stupid of me.

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« Reply #6 on: June 18, 2004, 07:09:33 pm »
Shitfuckface!

Yay! lol

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« Reply #7 on: June 18, 2004, 07:44:25 pm »
lol
Anyway not to be rude or anything amanda how can you say you dont like someone who is Rude/Conceited/Arrogant when you have acted that way so many times before and i am sure your hair has been dirty once in your life ( even mine has) lol i'm not being mean at all but its silly of you to judge someone else on some things  you play a role in ..i wont ever say that because i know i can be a rude concieted arrogant girl sometimes and i have..it wont make me any better than the other person...and everyone listens to all types of music how can you say that turns you off when maybe the music you listen to the person wont like either, you cant say things like that because you dont "own" anyone and you cant ever change a person for who they are...but you can accept it and if you cant , its sad,  because its nothing really bad about it, theyre just "different".. :wink:

Whatever....Its not important to me, you either accept someone for who they are or you don't, however things like that dont happen to often because people are mainly judged on thier appearance and we live in a superficial world, instead of trying to find someone so perfect, maybe people should listen for a change, some people have great stories to tell and most often has a happy ending..

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« Reply #8 on: June 18, 2004, 07:50:59 pm »
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Quote from: "Manda"
Turn Off's:
1. dirty/greasy hair
2. Smells
3. Listens to Punk/Goth/Skate/Emo/Metal/Hardcore Bands (?)
4. Rude
5. Conceited/Arrogant
6. Doesn't have a sense of humor
7. doesn't make eye contact
8. too quiet/overly talkative


Just b/c a person listens to a certain type of music doesn't mean their going to dress/act in that same mannor.  :roll:

Why I ever bypass the thing to read some of your posts is unknown and plain stupid of me.


they are my turn off's, I just do not like that type of music, I can't stand it at all. if you think my posts are stupid don't read them, thats all you have to do.  :roll:

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« Reply #9 on: June 18, 2004, 07:52:02 pm »
once again Jen,  my turn off's.

 :wink:

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« Reply #10 on: June 18, 2004, 07:58:52 pm »
Fine lol

they are your turns off amanda but just to let you know , disliking someone for dirty greasy  hair and just because they smell is rude, arrogant and concieted, :lol:

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« Reply #11 on: June 18, 2004, 08:01:03 pm »
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Fine lol

they are your turns off amanda but just to let you know , disliking someone for dirty greasy  hair and just because they smell is rude, arrogant and concieted, :lol:


gotcha  :wink:

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« Reply #12 on: June 18, 2004, 08:03:03 pm »
I am sorry, i cant be mean, i just cant, i think you are a very nice person manda  :D

maybe i shouldnt have said anything but please have better judgement please

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« Reply #13 on: June 18, 2004, 08:04:40 pm »
no, seriously, its no problem.

Your right and I take it all into consideration and do think about it. I still think you are a terrific person, and I, too, think that those were some very weird and stupid things to say.

*hug*

Thanks Jen.

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« Reply #14 on: June 18, 2004, 08:09:51 pm »
haha its okay no worries, every one has something stupid things to say...lol even i...

its what makes everything so interesting... :lol:

Thanks for being understanding....thats great.. goodnight :heart: