Sex before Marriage

[in_white_houses]

i see nothing wrong with it. im catholic and go to a catholic school where they teach only abstinence, but i don't agree. if you love the person, and your smart about it, its fine.

[Morgan]

I would never do that, it`s just totally against what I feel.
I would never be rude to someone who believes differently, though.
I`m not the kind of person who thinks people who believe oppositely of me are total freaks. If someone believes what they believe, that`s just what they believe, you know(question mark)

[SadAsBlue]

^ I agree
I hold nothing against people who do that. It's thier American right. But I choose to wait

[Vultch]

People need an IQ test first.
Sex is great but too many people are stupid about it and it leads to babies and a burning when you pee.

As long as people are responsible about it, party on. And if you aren't responsible or have problems in that department, that's why we have internet porn.

A girl saving herself for marriage is just gonna lead to a guy rushing into marriage completely unprepared. What a girl should do is say she won't have sex until there's a cure for cancer, some 20yr old kid will find it within 2 weeks.
(somewhat stolen from Chris Porter)

[shinesobright07]

^ Interesting idea/ 

 My friends and I are under the age of 16, and a few of them are sexually active with their boyfriends. Before I learned this, I was leaning towards the idea of waiting until marriage, but then it got me thinking. I never really pictured myself doing it when I was in my high school years, but it now seems so realistic and easy. I always ask how it happens... and they just say "It just happened".  And my mother wants me to wait until I'm atleast 18... but I can't figure out if it's really a big deal anymore, as long as you're able to deal with possible pregnancy, STDs, and emotions afterwards. (although if it's the first time, there shouldn't be any STDs involved)

 

[SylvanHistorian30]

I won't vote because I'm undecided. I'll just share my opinion.

I think that yes, sex is great. In the animal kingdom, it seems like only we humans attach the feelings of love and affection to it. The other animals do it because it's their duty. They either have sex or their species dies out. But in us humans, there is an emotional and sentimental attachment to it. That's what sets us apart.

In light of these emotional and sentimental attachments, I am therefore of the opinion that it should only be done at the proper time, in the proper place, with the proper person. Whether the proper time for you is when you're married and the place, in the bedroom (or kitchen, if you prefer), I'll not meddle with that. I will only say that the person with whom you do it be someone you truly love . . . except your parents. I mean, come on, that's incest.

Of course, this is just an opinion. It may be wrong, and it's open to debate. I'm willing to answer questions.