ha, love your bangs itsthefiveofus.
I go for the darkly look, but i'm modestly goth.
I don't really do too far with overdramatic clothing. Some of it looks waay to tacky. Besides, goth is not a style of clothing. For me it's a term to describe a type of personality. People speculate and assume a lot about this, so i'm not gonna bother to get detailed.
As far as clothing, I like to combine grays and blacks. I like jackets and loose fit black or gray jeans. Tight jeans are mostly emo, but besides that they looks hideous and really stupid on guys. The bondage pants (neon colored stitching and chains) are really tacky. That look is for mall goths.