Gay and Christian, need some help.

[Ryou-Neko]

Your sarcasm would be appreciated if it made sense.

[charmedguy18]

It would be appreciated if it was intelligent.

[soupdujour]

Hey, guys, I posted a question on Yahoo Answers and it's about to expire so Im just posting my question on here to see if I can get any more helpful responses. All answers are appreciated. Thank you all. Peace.

Fellow Christians, help me out here. I'm a Chrisitian, but I am also homosexual. I know that the Bible says being gay is an abomination, but it also says that eating shrimp and lobster and wearing clothes that are made of more than one material are abominable things too. Also, doesn't the Bible say that Jesus surrounded himself with the outcasts of society? Who better represents the outcasts of this day and age than the LGBT community? Pastors say "God's grace is limitless", and that gives me hope that He would accept me, but others say God condemns the gays, which scares me. People say God loves all His children, so why shouldn't He love me? Am I not a child of God? And is it not also said that God has a plan for all of us? Wouldn't that make this part of God's plans for me? If it is part of His plan, who am I to deny it? This is all really confusing, and I'm not sure what to think, where to turn, or what to do. It blows my mind to think that one wrong decision in this short life could make my entire eternal life hell. Eternity is a long time. I'm afraid. I'm deathly scared for my soul and I just need a little help. Thank you all.

So, from what I'm reading, it looks like I can be gay, but I can't live a gay life. Is that right, because it doesn't make sense that God would want to take love from me. Maybe I'm naive. Thanks for all of you who are truly helping.

Ok, wherever I ask this question, I get the answer: "Gay: acceptable, gay lifestyle: condemned". What do you all mean by gay lifestyle? If you mean just sleeping around with men like we're all man-whores and callboys, you couldn't be farther from the truth, because I can say that as a gay male, I don't think fornication is right. But if by gay lifestyle, you just mean having sex with men, married or not, does that mean I'm supposed to stay celibate all my life? Thanks again to everyone who's helping, all answers are indescribably appreciated.

If it is at all relelvant to anyone out there, my AIM screen name is Respekt218. Feel free to contact me about this issue, even after I've chosen an answer.

just stick to oral  

[ReSpektDaFrenziedEVanesSa]

what's wrong with anal?

[jessica73]

Hey, soupy's still here? Still trolling grak for epic lulz?

I don't know, maybe buttsecks is worse than oral to some people.

[ReSpektDaFrenziedEVanesSa]

ok then, that makes no sense. Butt sex is the best kind, imo.

[zurielshimon]

I don't know.  Oral and futtbucking are fairly even to me.  There's just a certain order I would recommend doing them in and a certain order I would recommend not doing them in.

[Ryou-Neko]

Such loveliness abound.

Both are pretty damned good, I have to say.

[ReSpektDaFrenziedEVanesSa]

Well, of course they're all good, it's sex, it's not like we'll ever say, "oh I don't like that kind of sex, it feels too good." lol. But I have to say I love the feeling of anything going up my butt, it just drives me wild. Oral is fun, too, I guess, but it doesn't really compare in my book.

Is there some kind of rule against this kind of conversation? I'm wondering if mybe we could get kicked off for this hehe.

[Ryou-Neko]

I was rather shocked by this sudden sexual twist at first. I feel like it is probably not appreciated. But I have no idea.

[Wagella]

lol wut.

[Si]

Is this what you mean, Wags?

[Logikal X]

Well, of course they're all good, it's sex, it's not like we'll ever say, "oh I don't like that kind of sex, it feels too good." lol. But I have to say I love the feeling of anything going up my butt, it just drives me wild. Oral is fun, too, I guess, but it doesn't really compare in my book.

Is there some kind of rule against this kind of conversation? I'm wondering if mybe we could get kicked off for this hehe.

I sure hope you dont get kicked for it

[jessica73]

I don't know.  Oral and futtbucking are fairly even to me.  There's just a certain order I would recommend doing them in and a certain order I would recommend not doing them in.

Yes, if Clerks II taught me anything, it's that you never go ass-to-mouth.  :x

[Wagella]

Is this what you mean, Wags?

You can just go ahead and assume from now on that no matter what I say I mean exactly that.