so sad. Sorry doesn't seem like enough to say. I feel really bad now especially since I had given her a baby book at the NYC show.
I thought her and I would have our babies around the same time, she was only a few weeks behind me (ectopics usually burst around 8 weeks, and I'm 13)
On a happier note, she is engaged, so that's a change and exciting news. At the show in Natick (or maybe NYC) she said you can change your mind about marriage when you meet a "traditional man", so my guess is he proposed when they found out she was pregnant. Hopefully now that doesn't change things. I wonder if they will purposely try to conceive again as I guess this one was not planned. If you are thinking your life will be one way, then it accidentally ends up a different way, then that gets all messed up, do you want your life to go back the way it was, or stay on the track you ended up on on accident? I guess only time will tell.