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Why I'm no longer a moderator
« on: January 21, 2004, 04:49:48 am »
A lot of people have been PMing me asking something along the lines of
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Hey Kev,

You were by far the best looking, funniest, most intelligent and most talented moderator, so why are you no longer a mod?

-An adoring fan

p.s. Marry me!?!

;-) So rather than reply to everyone individually, I thought I'd take some time to explain here. Hopefully this will satisfy your raging curiosity.

A few months ago it was decided that there were too many inactive Mods. Wonkies and me opted to step down as moderators because at that time we weren't around much. Joe is still not around a whole lot and although I am around a lot more these days, I still wanted to step down. So we both handed in our moderator accounts. The reasons I wanted to step down will take some explaining.

Nh.com hopes to be (and is) more than just a forum and because of this there are good reasons why I couldn't moderate the forum the way I personally would have liked to. That was perfectly fine, I can handle not getting my own way (especially when there are good reasons not to). But as a mod you have a responsibility to keep an eye on things, which means you can't put people on ignore and you have to read a lot of stuff you don't really want to read when you come to the board. Because of this, I found myself enjoying it here less and less and there not being a lot I could do about it. So I decided that I should quit for the sake of my own enjoyment of the forum. The grass is always greener on the other side and I know you'll all stop liking me because I'm no longer a hip & cool mod, so I'll probably live to regret it, but for now we'll see :-)

So that's the reason. I know you were probably hoping it would be a spectacular power struggle for control of nh.com resulting in me being fired. But it wasn't :-P

-Kev

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Re: Why I'm no longer a moderator
« Reply #1 on: January 21, 2004, 06:28:36 am »
Quote from: "kev222"
So that's the reason. I know you were probably hoping it would be a spectacular power struggle for control of nh.com resulting in me being fired. But it wasn't :-P


Well.. there WAS the big battle at Katia's secret underground layer.  But I think that was unrelated to you being fired.
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« Reply #2 on: January 21, 2004, 07:39:03 am »
Couldn't stand having to read my posts, eh?  Wuss.
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« Reply #3 on: January 21, 2004, 07:41:10 am »
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Couldn't stand having to read my posts, eh?  Wuss.


Don't worry about him Scum, he's just bitter Katia wouldn't give him half of the lair.
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Why I'm no longer a moderator
« Reply #4 on: January 21, 2004, 07:41:44 am »
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Couldn't stand having to read my posts, eh?  Wuss.

Don't try to put up that hostile front with me Todd. Your PM was the one I quoted above. You aren't fooling anyone.

-Kev

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Why I'm no longer a moderator
« Reply #5 on: January 21, 2004, 08:00:36 am »
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Quote from: "Katia's Lover"
Couldn't stand having to read my posts, eh?  Wuss.

Don't try to put up that hostile front with me Todd. Your PM was the one I quoted above. You aren't fooling anyone.

-Kev


Tod and Kevin sitting in a tree.....
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« Reply #6 on: January 21, 2004, 08:02:19 am »
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Quote from: "kev222"
Quote from: "Katia's Lover"
Couldn't stand having to read my posts, eh?  Wuss.

Don't try to put up that hostile front with me Todd. Your PM was the one I quoted above. You aren't fooling anyone.

-Kev


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It's unrequited I assure you. In fact he knows full well that he can't attempt to communicate with me or come within 500 feet.

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« Reply #7 on: January 21, 2004, 08:03:37 am »
HUGS!!!!!!!!!!! :D

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Re: Why I'm no longer a moderator
« Reply #8 on: January 21, 2004, 08:38:29 am »
Quote from: "kev222"
A lot of people have been PMing me asking something along the lines of
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Hey Kev,

You were by far the best looking, funniest, most intelligent and most talented moderator, so why are you no longer a mod?

-An adoring fan

p.s. Marry me!?!

;-) So rather than reply to everyone individually, I thought I'd take some time to explain here. Hopefully this will satisfy your raging curiosity.

A few months ago it was decided that there were too many inactive Mods. Wonkies and me opted to step down as moderators because at that time we weren't around much. Joe is still not around a whole lot and although I am around a lot more these days, I still wanted to step down. So we both handed in our moderator accounts. The reasons I wanted to step down will take some explaining.

Nh.com hopes to be (and is) more than just a forum and because of this there are good reasons why I couldn't moderate the forum the way I personally would have liked to. That was perfectly fine, I can handle not getting my own way (especially when there are good reasons not to). But as a mod you have a responsibility to keep an eye on things, which means you can't put people on ignore and you have to read a lot of stuff you don't really want to read when you come to the board. Because of this, I found myself enjoying it here less and less and there not being a lot I could do about it. So I decided that I should quit for the sake of my own enjoyment of the forum. The grass is always greener on the other side and I know you'll all stop liking me because I'm no longer a hip & cool mod, so I'll probably live to regret it, but for now we'll see :-)

So that's the reason. I know you were probably hoping it would be a spectacular power struggle for control of nh.com resulting in me being fired. But it wasn't :-P

-Kev


hey!!
did you have to post MY PM??
That last part was for your eyes only you know!!

(but still,....marry me..? ;)  :lol:  )

I'm glad you didn't leave the board, but only became...uhm...a "normal" member
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Re: Why I'm no longer a moderator
« Reply #9 on: January 21, 2004, 08:47:01 am »
Quote from: "Si"
hey!!
did you have to post MY PM??

That last part was for your eyes only you know!!

(but still,....marry me..? ;)  :lol:  )

Yes! And I'm taking this seriously you know, I may never get asked again. I'll be in Holland in a week, you'd better start making plans ;-)

Quote from: "Si"
I'm glad you didn't leave the board, but only became...uhm...a "normal" member
 :D

Thanks Si :) I never even entertained the idea of leaving.

-Kev

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« Reply #10 on: January 21, 2004, 08:49:13 am »
Quote from: "kev222"
It's unrequited I assure you. In fact he knows full well that he can't attempt to communicate with me or come within 500 feet.

-Kev


e-restraining order? :dr evil:
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Re: Why I'm no longer a moderator
« Reply #11 on: January 21, 2004, 10:46:11 am »
Seems like a pretty good reason to me...*shrug*
But then again, you're not a desperate mod wannabe...

Quote from: "kev222"
Quote from: "Si"
hey!!
did you have to post MY PM??

That last part was for your eyes only you know!!

(but still,....marry me..? ;)  :lol:  )

Yes! And I'm taking this seriously you know, I may never get asked again. I'll be in Holland in a week, you'd better start making plans ;-)


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Re: Why I'm no longer a moderator
« Reply #12 on: January 21, 2004, 10:47:29 am »
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Seems like a pretty good reason to me...*shrug*
But then again, you're not a desperate mod wannabe...

Quote from: "kev222"
Quote from: "Si"
hey!!
did you have to post MY PM??

That last part was for your eyes only you know!!

(but still,....marry me..? ;)  :lol:  )

Yes! And I'm taking this seriously you know, I may never get asked again. I'll be in Holland in a week, you'd better start making plans ;-)


Do you believe in poligamy?


 O:-)

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« Reply #13 on: January 21, 2004, 10:48:12 am »
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Couldn't stand having to read my posts, eh?  Wuss.

Don't try to put up that hostile front with me Todd. Your PM was the one I quoted above. You aren't fooling anyone.

-Kev


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...doing what they shouldn't be :roll:

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Re: Why I'm no longer a moderator
« Reply #14 on: January 21, 2004, 10:49:19 am »
Quote from: "Tia"
Seems like a pretty good reason to me...*shrug*
But then again, you're not a desperate mod wannabe...

Quote from: "kev222"
Quote from: "Si"
hey!!
did you have to post MY PM??

That last part was for your eyes only you know!!

(but still,....marry me..? ;)  :lol:  )

Yes! And I'm taking this seriously you know, I may never get asked again. I'll be in Holland in a week, you'd better start making plans ;-)


Do you believe in poligamy?


me or Kev?
Coz everybody knows I do

lol
 :lol:



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