Well, I don't know about other people, but the reason I'm picky is because I can afford to be. I'm almost 16, and I really don't have to work. My parents aren't making me pay for college (or a huge chunk of it anyways), I don't have to buy my own car..etc. My parents are going to start making me pay for things only if I actually start making money.
Must be nice.
o_O
my thought exactly.
i hope you realize how lucky you are amanda, most of us don't have those luxuries! i'm doing everything i can to get out of working in dining services on campus because it bloooowwws, but at the end of the day a job's and job and i'll take whatever they can give me. i'm not trying to make you sound like a spoiled brat because i know that you're not, i just hope that you fully appreciate the fact that you don't have to worry about money. because once you do, that's all you'll be able to worry about and it sucks.
Oh believe me I know how lucky I am, especialy on the issue of paying for college. I have a lot of friends that have to pay their way. It's a huge deal and I'm really lucky that my parents are being so gracious.
I know they're going to make me help out with paying for college, and car insurance, and things like that once i get a job, but it won't have to be the whole thing. There's a lot of things though that i do have to pay for... movies, clothes, school supplies, lunch, music... etc. My parents have never been like "hey, lets go spring shopping for you" or "oh you're going to the mall? here's 20 dollars". They never spend money on things I just
want. I don't
need new clothes every year, or new shoes, or go to the movies..etc. They're very strict on things I
want, and things I
need. Anything I want I have to provide for myself. I get my mom's old car because she's getting a new one, I don't pay for car insurance because I don't make money, and I'm not being expected to pay for college because my parents are doing me that favor.. provided I get scholarships and such.
So yeah, i know i'm really lucky that i don't have to pay for these huge things, but I do have to pay for any thing i just
want, which happens to be a lot. If that makes sense...
Amanda