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Which is worse?

Being dumped by someone you care about and still want to be with
8 (33.3%)
Having to break up with someone you really care about and just feeling bad about it
6 (25%)
I haven't really expirienced either
7 (29.2%)
I've only been dumped so I don't know
2 (8.3%)
I've only been the one to break up with someone so I don't know
1 (4.2%)

Total Members Voted: 21

Voting closed: November 01, 2005, 05:00:57 pm

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Holly

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« on: November 01, 2005, 05:00:57 pm »
Just curious what everyone things... cause I've been on both sides and I think they're both pretty bad!

In my opinion I felt worse being the one to dump the other person. I felt so bad I cried while doing it (infront of him), and randomly in class today... haha
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« Reply #1 on: November 01, 2005, 06:45:37 pm »
They both suck about the same.
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« Reply #2 on: November 01, 2005, 09:05:12 pm »
I've been with my boyfriend Matt for about eight months and we have had so many ups and downs!

For a while I thought, "do I really love him?"

And I kept thinking, well I think of him every day, I dream of him, I can't wait to see him, he's the only one who really makes me happy and he's so loving and funny and smart..etc etc etc.

And then one day we got into a really heated argument with his now ex best friend who he calls his "brother" and in the end he said we didn't have a healthy relationship and it was over. Right then I knew I loved him, I wanted to be with him forever, I didn't want anyone else.

It was the worst feeling of all time.

A day later we were back together and his best friend/brother was out of the picture and I was back in. :-D
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« Reply #3 on: December 06, 2005, 01:28:53 pm »
wow... relationships suck!!! In the past week:
 I've cried because I couldn't have someone I fell for
Saw someone for the first time in months and realize I'm not completely over him
And had someone I broke up with a month ago cry on my shoulder because he couldn't have me

Feelings are painful...
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« Reply #4 on: December 06, 2005, 09:12:30 pm »
"Having to break up with someone you really care about and just feeling bad about it" I think is worse, because that makes you feel like a total jerk. You know you're doing the right thing, but at the same time you feel horrible for hurting someone.

If someone hurts you, then you're not the one who people will view as being or doing something "wrong" parsay, too.
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« Reply #5 on: December 18, 2005, 04:10:29 am »
Quote from: "Holly"
I've cried because I couldn't have someone I fell for

Yeah! I had a crush on a work colleague who left in the most spectacular way
;she took up a post in Dubai (approximately 6,499.5 Nautical Miles from here)
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« Reply #6 on: December 28, 2005, 09:07:33 am »
Being dumped by someone you care about and still want to be with.

Love is pain and pain sucks!

It's incredible what this past 3 months have represent for me.
1) I dumped my boyfriend and he ran off with some other girl a day later.
2) A guy that I had a crush on months ago now tells me he likes me.
3) My ex says he loves me but he can't be with me. (WTF?!)
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