The Bible is a complex work of which a thourough understanding requires specific expertise in multiple fields. As such, critics of The Bible do not deserve and should not expect the benefit of the doubt. They have to earn it.
I am not a theologian, and am not majoring in religious studies either. So I may not have the authority in your eyes to critique the information found in the Bible. But the opinions that I have expressed are those that have formed after years of being a practicing Roman Catholic, 8 years of Catholic school and all. I've examined my faith thoughtfully over time and have decided that love and compassion should be the basis of our existence in this world.
What revisions? By who? And how do those revisions degrade the authenticity of the verses regarding homosexuality?
What is in the Bible has been decided by Papal councils hundreds of years ago. They've decided what gospels are legit and what aren't. I can't give specifics because I haven't studied the Bible at length, but the books are out there, the History channel specials are out there. I'd love to study more on the subject. I'd have to talk to you about it at some later time.
I don't necessarily expect any answers to those questions. I just wanted to make the point that those who make statements about The Bible (or anything sufficiently complex) without substantiation aren't stating anything more than a blind opinion. Which is fine, but carries no weight in a debate.
Again, I'm no theologian, so I can't give you specifics. Maybe I can get back to you in two weeks with well researched facts.
Although, for different reasons, I agree with you about love, tolerance and being slow to judge people (homosexual or otherwise) If you don't know what the higher power has decided, then how do you know that he/she/it approves of love and tolerance and disapproves of hasty judgment? Are you not making decisions on his/her/it's behalf? By placing the decisions into the hands of an unknowable higher power you've removed any standard of morality all together.
I know that the higher power approves of love because it is what makes the world go round. I'm sure you would say that's blind faith, but there has to be something to that belief if there are world religions that share that belief in peace and love. There's something to be said about positivity and love. It is what keeps us healthy and happy. It's good energy. And we should practice this love, not because we fear something bad will happen to us if we don't, but because we care about others. Along with that, I feel that love is all inclusive. I don't think a positive and good creator would encourage the exclusion of others.