i had my first one when i was FIFTEEN. and i had my first examination when i was fourteen. they told me it was necessary for me because i was going to be put on birth control for excessive period cramps. the exams and pap smears are not as bad as it seems, so you shouldn't be too scared. there is a funny story about it though....
i was having a conversation about normal things with my gynaecologist to make things more comfortable for myself. specifically, we talked about my high school which is brand new- it was only 2 years old at the time.
when my gynaecologist was looking "down there," she said "yeah it's so beautiful and new!" of course, i was shocked and a little freaked out. then she continued "the campus is just so great and clean, how are the teachers?" at which point i understood what she was talking about.
lol
jen, i'm sorry about your test results, but thank god you caught it early.