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« on: May 05, 2003, 05:30:43 pm »
you unintentionally hurt someone who is a best friend... and you cant do nething to make the situation better?  :cry:  nothing... right? i just cant stand feeling so helpless........
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« Reply #1 on: May 05, 2003, 06:28:35 pm »
Well I suppose it depends on the situation... but I know what you mean, it sucks to feel helpless.  :?
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« Reply #2 on: May 06, 2003, 11:13:35 am »
yes.. it does

*is bummed*
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« Reply #3 on: May 06, 2003, 11:35:14 am »
There is ALWAYS something you can do to make the situation better.  You just have to figure out what that is.
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« Reply #4 on: May 06, 2003, 02:14:02 pm »
well... this person told me theres nothing i can do to make it better... even tho im trying my best to make things better
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« Reply #5 on: May 06, 2003, 02:29:18 pm »
I'm sorry hun, that really sucks.  But i think that if this person really was (or is) a true friend, she or he will come around and realize what a great person you are!  And if not, then it's their loss!

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« Reply #6 on: May 06, 2003, 02:48:36 pm »
:) ... thanks... but i guess without telling the whole situation i cant explain... this person has every reason to want to distance themself from me:(
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« Reply #7 on: May 06, 2003, 07:32:31 pm »
Yeah... it is hard to give specific advice without knowing the situation, but the best thing you can do now is just be a good friend and try to be there for your friend... but also give them some space if they want/need it, because if you force yourself on them they will just want to pull away more...

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