Author Topic: what do u do when (Read 2498 times)

Gina · « **on:** May 05, 2003, 05:30:43 pm »

you unintentionally hurt someone who is a best friend... and you cant do nething to make the situation better? :cry: nothing... right? i just cant stand feeling so helpless........

B · « **Reply #1 on:** May 05, 2003, 06:28:35 pm »

Well I suppose it depends on the situation... but I know what you mean, it sucks to feel helpless. :?

Gina · « **Reply #2 on:** May 06, 2003, 11:13:35 am »

yes.. it does

*is bummed*

Grakthis · « **Reply #3 on:** May 06, 2003, 11:35:14 am »

There is ALWAYS something you can do to make the situation better. You just have to figure out what that is.
---Andrew

Gina · « **Reply #4 on:** May 06, 2003, 02:14:02 pm »

well... this person told me theres nothing i can do to make it better... even tho im trying my best to make things better

Dancernl · « **Reply #5 on:** May 06, 2003, 02:29:18 pm »

I'm sorry hun, that really sucks. But i think that if this person really was (or is) a true friend, she or he will come around and realize what a great person you are! And if not, then it's their loss!

~Nikki *feels bad for Gina!*

Gina · « **Reply #6 on:** May 06, 2003, 02:48:36 pm »

... thanks... but i guess without telling the whole situation i cant explain... this person has every reason to want to distance themself from me:(

B · « **Reply #7 on:** May 06, 2003, 07:32:31 pm »

Yeah... it is hard to give specific advice without knowing the situation, but the best thing you can do now is just be a good friend and try to be there for your friend... but also give them some space if they want/need it, because if you force yourself on them they will just want to pull away more...

-Brian

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Author Topic: what do u do when (Read 2498 times)