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« on: May 16, 2003, 08:36:46 am »
this guy i like and i know he likes me... doesnt seem to know i like him back, lol. and i wanna know a good way that he could get the hint, but i dont wanna be too forward...
i'm going to prom (OMG! i'm excited  :D ) with him tonight and what should i say?

this is like the first guy ever who i instantly connected with and was able to be myself after only like 5 mins! and some of you all know how shy i am... so this is a big thing! lol
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i've never been the praying kind
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« Reply #1 on: May 16, 2003, 08:41:49 am »
Holly, this is scary because i am in almost exactly the same position(except my prom is in about 6 weeks!)! Do you have txt messages there? Because i swear that is the best way.

Yesterday my friend went around telling people we were going out, i was like NOOOO and so i txted him and he said 'why is that such a bad thing?' and i said "of course it isn't (i should be so lucky)"- it works i tell ya! We are going to 'Prom' together, too. lmao
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« Reply #2 on: May 16, 2003, 08:43:09 am »
Hmmm...that's a tough one.
I'm pretty bad at relationships so I'm gonna let someone else answer for me.
Sorry Holly!   :(
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« Reply #3 on: May 16, 2003, 09:02:07 am »
thats cool Rosie! goodluck with you and him!!

yeah... i am really lucky to have met him... he's like 5 inches taller than me which is great cause its finally a guy i can wear heals with!! and i think he's cute! and he's really sweet and acts like a gentleman, and we have alot in common so we have good conversations...
he's also training to be a fireman!
his sis set us up for my prom... and at that point i hadnt met him yet... but on tues we went out for coffee and had a great time. but by the end of the night i wasnt sure if he liked me or not, but i liked him...
then my mom and i have picked up a few things from his sis and mom that make me think he does like me:
he said something like "omg! she is the nicest, most real girl i've ever met"
and his mom said when he got back from our date she saw a sparkle in his eye she hadnt seen in a long time. awwww....
and his sis says he's always asking her if she's talked to me or if ive said anything about me, she says he's nervous to see if i like him too, cause he likes me
and when i called him last night, maybe it was just me, but his voice seemed to have perked up a bit when he found out it was me!

his sis offered to do my hair and make up (she's like a pro) so i'll find out more talking to her! and then i'll be spending like 9 to 15 hours with him tonight/tomrrow morning so since i only have spent an hour with him, i should get to know him alot more tonight
"i'm willing to do anything
to calm the storm in my heart
i've never been the praying kind
but lately i've been down upon my knees
not looking for a miracle
just a reason to believe"

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« Reply #4 on: May 16, 2003, 09:05:50 am »
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he said something like "omg! she is the nicest, most real girl i've ever met"
and his mom said when he got back from our date she saw a sparkle in his eye she hadnt seen in a long time. awwww....


Oh that is just the cutest thing possibly ever said!
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« Reply #5 on: May 16, 2003, 09:08:25 am »
yeah... it is!

and he's only had one girlfriend and she broke his heart... so i know that must mean that he's nice
and he's cute and really fun to hang out with... so he must have only had one girlfriend because he's shy, or because he's picky...
"i'm willing to do anything
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i've never been the praying kind
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not looking for a miracle
just a reason to believe"

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« Reply #6 on: May 16, 2003, 09:10:51 am »
Hold hands with him a lot, he'll get the hint, SOunds like he's just as nervous as you are. I think you're going to be just fine. Be safe tonight...no drinking and driving, and be careful if you're driving home.

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« Reply #7 on: May 16, 2003, 09:14:37 am »
thanks David! yeah, i'll be safe!

i'll try to hold hands with him... and when we're dancing i'll get close to him... i hope by the end of the night/morning he understands that i like him too
"i'm willing to do anything
to calm the storm in my heart
i've never been the praying kind
but lately i've been down upon my knees
not looking for a miracle
just a reason to believe"

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« Reply #8 on: May 16, 2003, 09:16:23 am »
You should invite him back to your place...then he'll really know! :wink:

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« Reply #9 on: May 16, 2003, 09:20:40 am »
lmao! i dont wanna move that fast if thats what ur implying

but actually... we're going to be in a group with 4 other couples the whole night, he's picking me up at 6pm tonight, then we'll meet my friends at 6:30pm and go to prom at 8pm, then prom ends at 12am, we'll go to afterparites till like 3am... then we'll go crash at my friends house and swim, watch movies... etc. then i have to leave at 9am.. but i dont know how long he'll stay
"i'm willing to do anything
to calm the storm in my heart
i've never been the praying kind
but lately i've been down upon my knees
not looking for a miracle
just a reason to believe"

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« Reply #10 on: May 16, 2003, 09:22:29 am »
David, don't tell her that!! Haha...

Holly, I am sure your smile tells him you like him. I can totally see you grining around him. I am sure you both feel it and well tonight I am sure you will have time to show it (not in David's way) but like mentioned before, hand holding, looks, etc. And be sure you tell him you are having a good time (if you are) and that you enjoy spending time with him. You might could even throw in there that you hope you will get to spend sometime together over the summer or what not.

He is going to be scared if he is just getting over a relationship and they usually fall pretty quick and hard when they are. Just be yourself.

I hope some of this made sense. Good luck have fun...

My fireman is 6'2"

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« Reply #11 on: May 16, 2003, 09:26:58 am »
thanx Let!
yeah, i plan to hint that i want to see him more... like i'll invite him to hang outs with friends and stuff...
i'm not sure how long ago he broke up with his ex... but i hope he knows i dont plan to do the same to him. he's a nice guy, and i dont see the point in hurting him unless he changes that.
what you said definatly made sense!  :)

my fireman (to be, he's only 17 like me) is somewhere between 6'2" and 6'3"
hehe... fireman (especially tall ones) are cool  :D
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« Reply #12 on: May 16, 2003, 09:29:00 am »
You're going to have a blast tonight! I want to hear all about it!

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« Reply #13 on: May 16, 2003, 09:30:26 am »
thanx! yeah, i'm sure i am!! as long as nothing bad happens!

and i'll tell you about it!!!
"i'm willing to do anything
to calm the storm in my heart
i've never been the praying kind
but lately i've been down upon my knees
not looking for a miracle
just a reason to believe"

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« Reply #14 on: May 16, 2003, 09:37:21 am »
Quote from: "David Hart"
You should invite him back to your place...then he'll really know! :wink:


LMFAO!

I'm undecided if that is a good idea or not...eh.... :twisted:

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