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"It's better to have loved and lost, than to have never loved at all"

True
11 (45.8%)
False
2 (8.3%)
Maybe
4 (16.7%)
Dunno
7 (29.2%)
Other:
0 (0%)

Total Members Voted: 24

Voting closed: February 14, 2004, 12:27:53 am

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« on: February 14, 2004, 12:27:53 am »
 
What do you think?

 



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« Reply #1 on: February 14, 2004, 12:39:06 am »
False. Ignorance is bliss. Heartbreak sucks. Fuck love.

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« Reply #2 on: February 14, 2004, 12:45:48 am »
I think that's true...
Love is something everyone should expirience, I know I want to! I've expirienced love of family and friends, but I need a guy! lol.
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« Reply #3 on: February 14, 2004, 02:07:42 am »
Quote from: "blackvulture"
Ignorance is bliss.


True.

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Heartbreak sucks.


Also true.

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Fuck love.


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« Reply #4 on: February 14, 2004, 04:27:13 am »
hmm I am not sure on this one.  I have dealt with having a broken heart and its easy to say I wish I never got involved with one of my exes... but then I can not imagine not ever crossing his path.  I still love the guy and he are still friends.  Its just hard to accept that we are not together.  Him being in New York does make it easier though.  I suppose it depends on my mood... but most of the time I feel like beevee.
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« Reply #5 on: February 14, 2004, 06:31:32 am »
False! Kev's right, fuck heartbreak. Our chemicals only last 2 - 3 years . . . How much bullshit is that?

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« Reply #6 on: February 14, 2004, 09:23:46 am »
I've never expirienced heart break... So I guess I don't really know how bad it feels. I've expirienced loosing someone to death many times, but I bet it's totally different.
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i've never been the praying kind
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« Reply #7 on: February 14, 2004, 09:30:47 am »
Actually, Holly, I don't think it's that different. When someone breaks up with you, you lose them. When someone dies you lose them. Heartbreak is the epitome of loss, and vice versa.

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« Reply #8 on: February 14, 2004, 09:40:53 am »
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Actually, Holly, I don't think it's that different.


I'd say it's very different.

But it's better to have loved and lost, then never to have loved at all. I think... =\ Ask me again in 10 years.
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« Reply #9 on: February 14, 2004, 12:38:07 pm »
I still can't decide on this one.

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« Reply #10 on: February 14, 2004, 01:32:21 pm »
i dunno...i don't care....gah.

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« Reply #11 on: February 14, 2004, 01:57:12 pm »
I'm up in the air with this one, I've loved... lost... had a broken heart, but I suppose in the end the memories were well worth it, and I'd do it all over again (as i am right now).  The heartache is terrible but if you can get past that, you're a much stronger person than you were before all of it happened, you learn a lot from those experiences...
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« Reply #12 on: February 14, 2004, 01:58:54 pm »
Quote from: "Gina"
The heartache is terrible but if you can get past that, you're a much stronger person than you were before all of it happened, you learn a lot from those experiences...


Yup...*sigh*
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« Reply #13 on: February 14, 2004, 03:52:28 pm »
Anyone who voted "false" for this should seriously seek professional help.  Not a joke, not being mean, not trying to start a fight.

But if every time you get hurt you immediatly respond with "I wish that hadn't happened" then you have issues dealing with pain and learning from it and you need to work through them otherwise you will be the cliched "doomaed to make the same mistakes for the rest of your life".

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« Reply #14 on: February 14, 2004, 04:00:49 pm »
*votes false just out of spite*