i agree with b. i've been watching this thread, i love the thoughtfulness of everyone who's responded to this very valid question, and i've been thinking about what i want to say.
i'll be a NESSAholic forever. vanessa carlton's music - i have no single reason to love it as much as i do, and though there are qualities of her music that i love that turn up in other artists and other music, nothing quite compares to how vanessa brings it all together.
about vanessa the person - i think she does genuinely appreciate us. :] not just because she should, but i think she really does. and if she comes across as aloof/rude - well, we all have bad days. and again, like b said, we don't know what her life is like. and v seems to be a sweet person in general.
um. and irv gotti! the enthusiasm that he has shown for v is still comforting, even if we're not seeing much of the inc's enthusiasm now. he does have other artists that are facing troubles right now, too, so i guess it's understandable if the inc is not giving v the fullest. though they could at least do some of the basic things. like the keeping up the official website and the myspace.
at least the inc seems to appreciate v and we know they have given her artistic freedom. it doesn't seem like anyone's pressuring her. so i'm going to go cross my fingers as well and hoping that irv just has something else planned.
heroes & thieves is a really good. even if i've been listening to harmonium a lot these days, i think heroes & thieves is very radio-friendly. i believe "hands on me" is radio-friendly. i think it could have been (and with a miracle, still has the tiniest slightest chance of becoming) a top10. so uh, it's not over. :] i think v would really suit a lot of people's tastes if she was more well-known. i mean, intelligent, sweet, piano, very slightly quirky soft poprock? with the whole prevailing scene that's giving sara bareilles and marie digby a chance, i think she would fit fine into it. again, if only she had more promotion.
what i really wish is for some more vanessa-presence. i've dug up a few shows, but they're really not in places i can go to and they haven't been publicized for the people who can go to them. and like everyone said, i really wish she would drop us a line sometime.
and this became kind of lonnnng. i'm such a dork for v.