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Do you think it's wrong for a 24 year old to date/talk to/think about being with a person who just turned 16?

Yes
21 (61.8%)
No
13 (38.2%)

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Voting closed: October 25, 2004, 12:57:27 pm

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« Reply #30 on: November 02, 2004, 08:46:13 am »
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i'm really not sure...i have a shit opinion of relationships to begin with. but my Nana started dating my Bapa at 18 when he was 28 and they were together until his death. i think it just depends on the people involved.


But at 18 a girl is an adult, and should be matured enough to know the difference between somethings.

iuno, just find it odd, is all.

But.. if a 23 year old guy can't get a 23 year old girl, or at least someone older than a girl who JUST turned 16, then something is wrong.

but thats just MY OPINION.

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« Reply #31 on: November 02, 2004, 09:44:22 am »
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i'm really not sure...i have a shit opinion of relationships to begin with. but my Nana started dating my Bapa at 18 when he was 28 and they were together until his death. i think it just depends on the people involved.


But at 18 a girl is an adult, and should be matured enough to know the difference between somethings.

iuno, just find it odd, is all.

But.. if a 23 year old guy can't get a 23 year old girl, or at least someone older than a girl who JUST turned 16, then something is wrong.

but thats just MY OPINION.


lol i get that it's your opinion :-P generally i agree with you, but there are always exceptions to everything

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« Reply #32 on: November 02, 2004, 10:56:39 am »
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i'm really not sure...i have a shit opinion of relationships to begin with. but my Nana started dating my Bapa at 18 when he was 28 and they were together until his death. i think it just depends on the people involved.


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« Reply #33 on: November 02, 2004, 11:42:20 am »
I think its Ok as long one of then isnt taking advantage and take it all serious not just for fooling around which can turn out bad.

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« Reply #34 on: November 02, 2004, 11:53:43 am »
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I think its Ok as long one of then isnt taking advantage and take it all serious not just for fooling around which can turn out bad.


I don't think at 16 you can know where to draw the line, or know what is 'just fooling around' or what involves your heart. Thats why i agree with Fairy.
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« Reply #35 on: November 04, 2004, 05:46:47 am »
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I think its Ok as long one of then isnt taking advantage and take it all serious not just for fooling around which can turn out bad.


I don't think at 16 you can know where to draw the line, or know what is 'just fooling around' or what involves your heart. Thats why i agree with Fairy.


Well, I mean... *I* knew at 16.  But I'm just smarter than everyone else  :wink:
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« Reply #36 on: November 04, 2004, 07:54:32 am »
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I think its Ok as long one of then isnt taking advantage and take it all serious not just for fooling around which can turn out bad.


I don't think at 16 you can know where to draw the line, or know what is 'just fooling around' or what involves your heart. Thats why i agree with Fairy.


Well, I mean... *I* knew at 16.  But I'm just smarter than everyone else  :wink:


omg, andrew.

YOU DID NOT. I WAS THERE. I KNOW.

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« Reply #37 on: November 04, 2004, 08:09:38 am »
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I think its Ok as long one of then isnt taking advantage and take it all serious not just for fooling around which can turn out bad.


I don't think at 16 you can know where to draw the line, or know what is 'just fooling around' or what involves your heart. Thats why i agree with Fairy.


Well, I mean... *I* knew at 16.  But I'm just smarter than everyone else  :wink:


omg, andrew.

YOU DID NOT. I WAS THERE. I KNOW.


Did you know technically you don't even have to have sex with an underage girl for it to be statutory rape?

Technically, buying her gifts, plane tickets, bus tickets, sending her love letters, etc.  All of those things can fall under statutory rape IF it gives the appearance of a sexual relationship.
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« Reply #38 on: November 04, 2004, 09:18:34 am »
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I think its Ok as long one of then isnt taking advantage and take it all serious not just for fooling around which can turn out bad.


I don't think at 16 you can know where to draw the line, or know what is 'just fooling around' or what involves your heart. Thats why i agree with Fairy.


Well, I mean... *I* knew at 16.  But I'm just smarter than everyone else  :wink:


omg, andrew.

YOU DID NOT. I WAS THERE. I KNOW.


Did you know technically you don't even have to have sex with an underage girl for it to be statutory rape?

Technically, buying her gifts, plane tickets, bus tickets, sending her love letters, etc.  All of those things can fall under statutory rape IF it gives the appearance of a sexual relationship.


Then I'm taking all your old love letters to the Po-Po today.

You're ass is grass.

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« Reply #39 on: November 04, 2004, 12:52:00 pm »
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I think its Ok as long one of then isnt taking advantage and take it all serious not just for fooling around which can turn out bad.


I don't think at 16 you can know where to draw the line, or know what is 'just fooling around' or what involves your heart. Thats why i agree with Fairy.


Well, I mean... *I* knew at 16.  But I'm just smarter than everyone else  :wink:


omg, andrew.

YOU DID NOT. I WAS THERE. I KNOW.


Did you know technically you don't even have to have sex with an underage girl for it to be statutory rape?

Technically, buying her gifts, plane tickets, bus tickets, sending her love letters, etc.  All of those things can fall under statutory rape IF it gives the appearance of a sexual relationship.


Then I'm taking all your old love letters to the Po-Po today.

You're ass is grass.


Your little sister gave you the letters?!?!  I'll kill her!
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« Reply #40 on: November 04, 2004, 05:11:13 pm »
SHE SHOWED ME THAT PICTURE TOO.

WHAT WERE YOU DOING TO THAT LITTLE DOG?

:SHOCK:

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« Reply #41 on: November 04, 2004, 11:39:12 pm »
that is disgusting.

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« Reply #42 on: November 05, 2004, 06:38:46 am »
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SHE SHOWED ME THAT PICTURE TOO.

WHAT WERE YOU DOING TO THAT LITTLE DOG?

:SHOCK:

:shock:


Oh, come on.  She was like 35 in dog years!
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« Reply #43 on: November 05, 2004, 09:30:58 am »
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SHE SHOWED ME THAT PICTURE TOO.

WHAT WERE YOU DOING TO THAT LITTLE DOG?

:SHOCK:

:shock:


Oh, come on.  She was like 35 in dog years!

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