There's no point in trying to help; this is America, not the middle-east, not Iraq, not Afghanistan, and certainly not Vietnam.
Bush (or whoever you consider in control and at fault with this) needs to worry about his people and his country first. Without us, he's nothing and in deep shit without millions of Americans supporting him.
Even after he is finished, worrying about us, there's no point in "helping" other nations; in what ways have we helped Iraq? There have been numerous casualties and soldiers killed in the process of trying to imprison Hussein, who - while in power - killed, probably, fewer people than have died in the past two years over seas. How is this helping anyone: the soldiers' families, Iraq and its people, the soldiers and civilians themselves? Answer that validly and you get a cookie.
(Good luck!)
It's said to be helping America as a whole - you know, the oil thing. That should help our economy - the same economy which was totally fucked when You Know Who was elected in office four years ago. Everything is so contrary or cancels something out. Instead of going to war over oil to help the economy, just avoid it all totally and DON'T elect a dumbass who WILL lower the economy - subtly if not noticeably. Instead of giving yourself a papercut and robbing a store to get band-aids, avoid it all together and don't use paper. It's simple; we're just a very retarded and illogical country. That's why I'm moving to France.
So . . . the thirty-five-year-old question remains: What are we doing over there?
Blame yourself - and if you didn't vote for Bush . . . impeach.