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Do you believe in sex before marriage?

Yes
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Nope
21 (35%)

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Voting closed: December 02, 2004, 06:51:45 pm

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« Reply #30 on: December 08, 2004, 07:24:56 am »
I think it's fine, as long as you take the right measures. From that point on, it's up to you if you do it with someone you've met at a bar or with someone you've been going out for 2 years. Personally, I'd wait til I felt safe and confident engouh in a relationship, but that's just me and I respect whoever wants to have casual sex. It's their problem.

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« Reply #31 on: December 13, 2004, 01:51:52 pm »
Yes. Have some.

Edit @ Nerea - I don't know if I would call casual sex a "problem" :)
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« Reply #32 on: December 14, 2004, 07:09:11 am »
I didn't know if it was the most appropiate word, but meant it just as an expression. I don't actually think it's a "problem"

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« Reply #33 on: December 15, 2004, 08:47:49 am »
Quote from: "neos"
I didn't know if it was the most appropiate word, but meant it just as an expression. I don't actually think it's a "problem"


I know.  I was just giving you a hard time  :D
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« Reply #34 on: December 15, 2004, 11:52:51 am »
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Quote from: "neos"
I didn't know if it was the most appropiate word, but meant it just as an expression. I don't actually think it's a "problem"


I know.  I was just giving you a hard time  :D


Well you shouldn't. You should be sending me hugs. Hmmpf!   :(

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« Reply #35 on: December 15, 2004, 12:03:23 pm »
honestly i dont know, who am i to say?
i have said i was going to wait till marriage my whole life, and i still think that way. but i havent been in a committed relationship and my feelings may change when i am. all i know is that i'll have to have a hell of a lot of trust and feelings for the guy, which means a long relationship.
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« Reply #36 on: December 15, 2004, 01:10:46 pm »
Quote from: "neos"
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Quote from: "neos"
I didn't know if it was the most appropiate word, but meant it just as an expression. I don't actually think it's a "problem"


I know.  I was just giving you a hard time  :D


Well you shouldn't. You should be sending me hugs. Hmmpf!   :(


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« Reply #37 on: December 15, 2004, 08:38:15 pm »
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Having a rough day?  You should sign on MSM :)


When I read that, it so sounded like one of those late night adult type commericals .. "having a rough day .. call and talk to XXX Andy" ;-) ha!



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« Reply #38 on: December 16, 2004, 06:22:48 am »
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Quote from: "Grakthis"
Having a rough day?  You should sign on MSM :)


When I read that, it so sounded like one of those late night adult type commericals .. "having a rough day .. call and talk to XXX Andy" ;-) ha!



... not that I watch them or anything ...


lol.  Grakthis on MSM.  Now available without a prescription!  Guaranteed to work!
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« Reply #39 on: December 17, 2004, 07:26:30 am »
Just have fun as long as your doing it save :D
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« Reply #40 on: December 27, 2004, 06:24:07 pm »
Yes.

But that doesn't mean going around throwing yourself at everybody.

I believe in sex before marriage, when you are in a long, stable relationship OUT OF HIGH SCHOOL.

I don't want to have sex in high school, I mean can't high school be confusing and complicated enough? I sure think so. I don't want sex to make it more complicated.

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« Reply #41 on: December 28, 2004, 07:32:29 pm »
I say yes..I know Im only 15 but I agree with sex before marriage as long as you truly love that person and you have spent a while with this person, you trust them, and respect them then I suposse it's okay and as long as you do it safly and know the risks  :lol:
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« Reply #42 on: December 29, 2004, 06:33:19 am »
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I say yes..I know Im only 15 but I agree with sex before marriage as long as you truly love that person and you have spent a while with this person, you trust them, and respect them then I suposse it's okay and as long as you do it safly and know the risks  :lol:


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« Reply #43 on: December 29, 2004, 07:01:19 am »
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« Reply #44 on: December 29, 2004, 01:13:06 pm »
I said Yes.  But it definately does depend on the circumstances.  Two people who have sex, in MY opinion should atleast have given it enough thought as to find out if your partner has any STD's.  I don't believe in random hookups with people who you've just met at a bar or club.
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