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Do you believe in sex before marriage?

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Voting closed: December 02, 2004, 06:51:45 pm

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« Reply #60 on: January 06, 2005, 11:57:16 am »
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Bad Kev.

It's "He or she" not "they"

Pah, they never taught me that in school. Instead I've got to hear it 7 years later on an internet chat board. It's a small wonder I did so badly in English.

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 8O Didn't you ever wonder how one person could be "they?"

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« Reply #61 on: January 06, 2005, 01:58:30 pm »
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Bad Kev.

It's "He or she" not "they"

Pah, they never taught me that in school. Instead I've got to hear it 7 years later on an internet chat board. It's a small wonder I did so badly in English.

-Kev


Wow.  I learned that back in HS (ages 14-18) and it was reinforced all through college.

And come on, don't I even get a CHUCKLE for the townies joke?
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« Reply #62 on: January 07, 2005, 07:51:11 am »
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Bad Kev.

It's "He or she" not "they"

Pah, they never taught me that in school. Instead I've got to hear it 7 years later on an internet chat board. It's a small wonder I did so badly in English.

-Kev


 8O Didn't you ever wonder how one person could be "they?"

You'd think so wouldn't you. But then again, I am an idiot.

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And come on, don't I even get a CHUCKLE for the townies joke?

Yes, rest assured, it did get a chuckle IRL. But I didn't have anything else to say in response (I was going to say something along the lines of "or Americans." But I didn't think I had the best footing considering my English language education was so blatently substandard) and I usually like to avoid n00bish "I am just writing to say lol" replies.

-Kev

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« Reply #63 on: January 07, 2005, 07:51:30 am »
Even though logic may tell you that the use of "they", a plural pronoun for a singular subject, such use when the gender of the subject is unknown has been common in English, even to the King, since at least the 1600s.  Reference:  Merriam-Webster Usage
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« Reply #64 on: March 29, 2005, 08:35:12 pm »
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Things are so much more complicated these days :o I can't begin to imagine
how difficult these kind of choices are going to be for the next generation :?


More reason I constantly hit myself for not being born in the 20's

Indeed! My Grandparents certainly had it different... tales of courtship from
their halcyon days seem a world apart from what kids today experience :o


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« Reply #65 on: May 14, 2005, 10:58:43 am »
Yes, I believe in pre-marital sex.  No one should be restricted.
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« Reply #66 on: June 23, 2005, 01:41:12 am »
I'm a christian so I don't believe in sex before marriage. I think it is something special given by God which should be reserved for the security of marriage. I think it makes quite a lot of sense really, looking at the way society has turned out...

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« Reply #67 on: June 23, 2005, 07:40:59 am »
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Bad Kev.

It's "He or she" not "they"

Pah, they never taught me that in school. Instead I've got to hear it 7 years later on an internet chat board. It's a small wonder I did so badly in English.

-Kev


 8O Didn't you ever wonder how one person could be "they?"

You'd think so wouldn't you. But then again, I am an idiot.

-Kev


I have always written 'they' in reference to a single person and i have never got anything less than an A in every exam i have taken. I got A*s in both English language and literature!

 Moreover, i find it funny that Americans seem to take particular care with grammar and criticise us for it, when you are the ones who botched our language in the first place. 'Thru' instead of 'through' is just one of the ways in which you have massacred the english language. I rest my case.
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« Reply #68 on: June 23, 2005, 07:58:24 am »
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Bad Kev.

It's "He or she" not "they"

Pah, they never taught me that in school. Instead I've got to hear it 7 years later on an internet chat board. It's a small wonder I did so badly in English.

-Kev


 8O Didn't you ever wonder how one person could be "they?"

You'd think so wouldn't you. But then again, I am an idiot.

-Kev


I have always written 'they' in reference to a single person and i have never got anything less than an A in every exam i have taken. I got A*s in both English language and literature!

 Moreover, i find it funny that Americans seem to take particular care with grammar and criticise us for it, when you are the ones who botched our language in the first place. 'Thru' instead of 'through' is just one of the ways in which you have massacred the english language. I rest my case.


Sweet heart, it's not an American thing.  It's an ENGLISH thing.  IT's true of British Grammar too.  I know, because I've had this conversation with a limey on another forum.

Don't babble about your A's.  That just means your teacher didn't care.

And it's YOU europeans and your txt messages that came up with things like "thru", not Americans.  We didn't do that.  You did.

Use your head for a minute and think about it.  THEY is PLURAL.  HE and SHE are singular.  It doesn't take a genius to figure it out.
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« Reply #69 on: June 23, 2005, 09:20:21 am »
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And it's YOU europeans and your txt messages that came up with things like "thru", not Americans.  We didn't do that.  You did.

In 1876, the American Philological Association adopted 11 new spellings, and began promoting their use:
ar catalog definit gard giv hav infinit liv tho thru wisht :P

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« Reply #70 on: June 23, 2005, 10:12:19 am »
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Bad Kev.

It's "He or she" not "they"

Pah, they never taught me that in school. Instead I've got to hear it 7 years later on an internet chat board. It's a small wonder I did so badly in English.

-Kev


 8O Didn't you ever wonder how one person could be "they?"

You'd think so wouldn't you. But then again, I am an idiot.

-Kev


I have always written 'they' in reference to a single person and i have never got anything less than an A in every exam i have taken. I got A*s in both English language and literature!

 Moreover, i find it funny that Americans seem to take particular care with grammar and criticise us for it, when you are the ones who botched our language in the first place. 'Thru' instead of 'through' is just one of the ways in which you have massacred the english language. I rest my case.


Sweet heart, it's not an American thing.  It's an ENGLISH thing.  IT's true of British Grammar too.  I know, because I've had this conversation with a limey on another forum.

Don't babble about your A's.  That just means your teacher didn't care.

And it's YOU europeans and your txt messages that came up with things like "thru", not Americans.  We didn't do that.  You did.

Use your head for a minute and think about it.  THEY is PLURAL.  HE and SHE are singular.  It doesn't take a genius to figure it out.


My point was not whether it is correct grammar or not- but simply that it is a perfectly acceptable thing to say. My point was that i find it amusing how Americans insist on correct grammar and place such a huge emphasis on it when so many cannot even write coherently, let alone well.

My As were externally marked by a set of independent examiners who marked 1000s of scripts from across the country, not a teacher dear.

Oh and HAHA for being proven wrong about 'thru'- in NYC i saw signs which said 'thru street' which clearly indicates that your botching of the English language has nothing to do with 'european' text messaging.
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« Reply #71 on: June 23, 2005, 10:27:15 am »
Do you not think this is ever so slightly off the topic of pre-marital sex?!
But I have to say, I absolutely can't stand bad grammar! I spend my life correcting my friends' grammar and it does tend to annoy them somewhat!

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« Reply #72 on: June 24, 2005, 06:48:56 am »
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Bad Kev.

It's "He or she" not "they"

Pah, they never taught me that in school. Instead I've got to hear it 7 years later on an internet chat board. It's a small wonder I did so badly in English.

-Kev


 8O Didn't you ever wonder how one person could be "they?"

You'd think so wouldn't you. But then again, I am an idiot.

-Kev


I have always written 'they' in reference to a single person and i have never got anything less than an A in every exam i have taken. I got A*s in both English language and literature!

 Moreover, i find it funny that Americans seem to take particular care with grammar and criticise us for it, when you are the ones who botched our language in the first place. 'Thru' instead of 'through' is just one of the ways in which you have massacred the english language. I rest my case.


Sweet heart, it's not an American thing.  It's an ENGLISH thing.  IT's true of British Grammar too.  I know, because I've had this conversation with a limey on another forum.

Don't babble about your A's.  That just means your teacher didn't care.

And it's YOU europeans and your txt messages that came up with things like "thru", not Americans.  We didn't do that.  You did.

Use your head for a minute and think about it.  THEY is PLURAL.  HE and SHE are singular.  It doesn't take a genius to figure it out.


My point was not whether it is correct grammar or not- but simply that it is a perfectly acceptable thing to say. My point was that i find it amusing how Americans insist on correct grammar and place such a huge emphasis on it when so many cannot even write coherently, let alone well.

My As were externally marked by a set of independent examiners who marked 1000s of scripts from across the country, not a teacher dear.

Oh and HAHA for being proven wrong about 'thru'- in NYC i saw signs which said 'thru street' which clearly indicates that your botching of the English language has nothing to do with 'european' text messaging.


Signs also use X-ing.  It's short-hand for places where you can't spell out the entire word.  That doesn't mean we accept it as proper usage.  If someone used "thru" in a document they were writing for me to give to a customer, or in their resume, i'd rip them a new ass.

What is accepted is irrelevant.  What is correct is all that matters.  People accept a lot of improper usages and spellings.

And most Americans aren't like this.  Just anal ones who took a lot of writing classes, like me.

Accepting improper usages is a slippery slope.

Edit @ Lucy - no one stays on topic.  It's pointless to try.
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« Reply #73 on: June 24, 2005, 06:54:46 am »
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Edit @ Lucy - no one stays on topic.  It's pointless to try.


especially when Andrew and Rosie or in the thread.  You two are probably the most outspoken people on the boards.

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« Reply #74 on: June 24, 2005, 06:56:09 am »
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Edit @ Lucy - no one stays on topic.  It's pointless to try.


especially when Andrew and Rosie or in the thread.  You two are probably the most loud obnoxious twats on the boards.


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